And I’m thinking along the same lines. That who she is is partly transparent, or rather the outside of who she is is transparent. I see through the layer of linen pants and skin to something else, to a person. It’s an image of her and it’s my image of her, and as I watch the image of her I’m thinking about Anne.
When we were first getting to know each other, before we’d even had sex, Anne and I took a trip to the beach. It was summer and she was wading into the tidepools with her pants rolled up and a light shirt on and the waves on the rocks and I always suspected she got wet so that I would see her and want her, and if that was her plan it worked.
And you might think that I would be thinking of that time with joy and happiness, but I’m not. Those times, I’m beginning to think, are gone. With my feet in the present and my mind in the past, my emotional attachment to that memory is beginning to fade. And I would be willing to let it fade, except even if it’s part of a past chapter in my life with Anne, there are other chapters coming, chapters filled with love and intimacy. I’m thinking that what existed in my past was love and that you can’t manufacture love or manufacture passion, and a person has to believe that those things — love and passion and life itself — will exist again, in the future.
I say I’m thinking, but it’s not so much thinking as telling myself. I’m trying to influence my thoughts. And also my feelings, the thoughts of my body. Somewhere in my body I’m enjoying what’s happening now. I’m enjoying the splashing of, and proximity to, this other person, and although I’m not trying to cancel the past or filter it out, I’m afraid that what is happening now will cause Anne to disappear.
To the extent that we make our own future, I want to make one I can hold on to. I need Anne, sure, but what exists right now is real. I am real and Linda is real, and real things have a certain attraction, and so I turn to Linda, and when she looks back at me I don’t do anything. I don’t try to change or correct or filter anything out. I let Linda be Linda. It just happens. And the fact of its happening is frightening because I’m not used to Linda. But I tell myself — looking at her — that what is happening is reality. Whether I’m making it or not, the sun is shining. Part of the rectangular pool is cast in light and part in shade and she has pulled up her pants and she’s splashing in the water, laughing occasionally in the sunlight.
I’m perched on the rock ledge, sitting in the sun, and when she splashes me I enjoy it. She’s holding her shoes in her fingers, her socks tucked inside, and you’d have to call it dancing what she does. The sun drops down farther into the trees and the sunlight disappears and by the time she steps out of the water of the pool she’s, not wet, but damp, and she’s shivering. I loan her my jacket and without guilt or memory or sadness getting in the way, we sit. I hold her in my arms, feeling the coldness of her skin and the warmth beneath that skin.
When Anne lived above the flower store on Sixth Avenue it happened like this many times. I came in the door and there she was, demure and polite but obviously excited, her etiquette not intending to mask her excitement. And without much talk we removed our clothes and then she jumped onto me. Her legs spread around my hips and I was lifting her and holding her so that her chest was level with my nose and mouth, and then lowering her down, and without any help from any hands we came together like that, sometimes her arms getting tired from holding on and sometimes my legs getting tired supporting her, and when this preliminary congress was over, I carried her to the bed and we fell finally, relaxed, into each other’s arms. And then showering, and in the shower if the mood was right, we would repeat ourselves.
And whatever love existed then, that was one thing, and each moment a new love takes its place. And I can see this person next to me, and I can see the possibility of love, and the only reason not to love is Anne, because I still love her. I can feel the regret and loss, and sitting next to me is something else, something that isn’t regret or loss. But there’s nothing I can do because in my heart, love and loss and regret are all combined, and I have my need, and my need is to find the thing that’s lost.
That’s when Linda stands up. She stands up, out of my arms, and starts tiptoeing away through the water. It seems to me she wants to be on her own, so I stand up. I walk to the tower at the top of the hill. I look up the rungs of the metal ladder and then begin climbing it, rung by rung, straight up, concentrating on the individual rungs as I come to them. And when I get to the top, to the perforated metal platform, I look down and she’s still there, walking through the pool. I look out and can see over the rolling hills, and although the sky is filled with clouds I can see the horizon in 360 degrees. The expression “takes your breath away” would be appropriate here because my heart or lungs seem to fill with so much air that it’s difficult to breathe. I’m looking off in all the various directions, and although I’m looking at the view, I’m thinking about Anne.
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Remember the bathtub? That claw-foot bathtub? That was probably your favorite place to be. I remember when we were first going out, still getting to know each other. I was in bed, not sleeping, just lazing around, and you got up. I felt you get up, crawl over me, and I remember the water running and you were gone. And you stayed gone. And I began to wonder what happened to you. And when you continued to stay gone I got up and followed the silence, because by then the water had stopped flowing and it was absolutely quiet. And I didn’t knock, I just very slowly opened the door to the bathroom. A candle was burning on a little white table you had — this was your apartment on Ninth Street — and the candle was the only light. You were in the tub, naked of course, and what I remember was your beauty. We’d made love before so I’d seen you naked but this was a different kind of nakedness. You saw me, you looked at me, but nothing changed because of me. You were there, in the tub, and you let me look at you, just as you were letting the sink and the toilet and the candle look at you. You were existing, without façade or artifice. Just being. And I stood there for some time, a long time, seeing your body in the tub, with the water of the tub still and smooth, your face damp, your eyes open, desireless, and you were looking at me. It was the most relaxed you’d ever been with me, the most available you’d ever been. That was the moment you let the world — and I was part of that world — see you. And it could have been my moment too, but it wasn’t. Even though you were sharing it with me, and were willing to share it with me, I didn’t feel it was mine. It was something I seemed incapable of understanding, or deserving, and because it was your moment, I envied you for having it. Later, I washed your back and then other parts of your body and we talked and laughed and I got wet and days went by but that moment, that long moment when you lay stretched out under the clear water, because of that one time seeing you, pure and effortless and still, I never saw you again in quite the same way. I never saw you again as beautiful because I never wanted you to be as beautiful as in that moment. In my mind I was always comparing myself with who you were when you were perfect. You know what they say. “Things happen,” and “Life goes on,” and now I’m here, standing under the sky, thinking of you — somewhere — under the same sky, and when I imagine you, the person I see is the person you were, the person submerged in the water, looking back at me, your eyes filled with what I wanted. But at the time I didn’t realize how much I wanted it.