Full disclosure, Julia said: She and Asa had been lovers, on and off over the years. They’d lost their virginity to each other. They’d shared their first kiss in kindergarten! But that was all over now. A youthful dependency they’d grown out of. They’d been unhealthily close at times. (Their mothers had carried them side by side in their wombs. Their birthdays, a mere three weeks apart.) The last, disastrous time that they had been lovers was two years ago now; the depression they’d moved in then, the sense of staleness and being unable to make things right, proved that they were meant, for the long term, to be merely the best of friends. And Julia intended to find Asa the perfect match, the person right for him, she repeated. (She herself was in a dreamy romance with Simon, an up-and-comer at his design firm.) Had she mentioned that Asa was devilishly handsome and funny and smart? And a good, good, good person — he worked for the Environmental Defense Fund, saving the air and the oceans.
“The air and the oceans,” repeated Lore. “That sounds like a lot.” But Julia didn’t smile. She was in earnest — Asa was some sort of saint.
Door after door: DO NOT ENTER: TEST IN PROGRESS. Lore wonders what precisely is going on behind these right now, what dark masses are being sought, what ugly secrets explored. Four closed doors in a row. Lore believes she can feel the humming of waves penetrating her skin, jostling and disrupting cells. It might not be good for the baby; she hurries on.
All right, all right, Lore said — she would meet Asa. (But she did not think a saint would be the right person for her at all.) For weeks she put off their get-together. She was in love with her new friend; this Asa was superfluous. But eventually she agreed to meet him at an inexpensive Greek place, his recommendation. She saw at once that he would expect to split the bill, and this pleased her. It suggested that he would not feel entitled to anything in particular. His physicality appealed to her: his disorderly curls and dark eyes and Roman nose, the broadness of his shoulders. He was three inches taller than she was, bearish and with a slow, delighted smile. He had the city quickness, its self-assertion, in his speech and in the movements of his hands. It was true that he wanted to save the air and the oceans, and he began to bore her somewhat with the details. There were so many dilemmas. We had to stop relying so much on foreign oil, and farmers upstate were struggling to get by, you couldn’t begrudge them a chance to make an easier living — but the companies starting to buy drilling rights would eventually tear up the land and poison the waters. The Chinese needed to grow their economy, just as we in the West had had our turn, but their coal plants might be death to the chance to put a brake on global warming. Those were just examples of the big picture; now he got down to details: mercury and triclosan, lobbyists and building codes. He went on too long, in his worrying and his enthusiasm, and then he caught himself and turned the conversation to her. How many kids in her caseload? How do you teach a child to make the sh sound? She showed him, and he practiced in earnest as if he really were a six-year-old who had to do it from scratch, laughing at his own trouble. A man, she thought, not a cocksure boy. The few lovers she’d had were generally able to keep only one opinion in their minds at a time, and believed the definition of being a man was to make you hold that opinion, too. The city had a softening influence on men, Lore observed, without taking away their masculinity. Asa had a deep, hoarse voice that spoke of imperfection, of vulnerability. When he kissed her at her door, his hand, which lightly held her cheek, was tender, but he did not shift to conceal the tight pulse of his erection, and she gave over then; she chose: Yes.
Asa had his own version of the Story of Asa and Julia. Well, Julia, he said, a bit wearily. The longest, longest story. Always Julia had sent him away and called him back. She wanted no one else by her during the year after the rape. He must be near her all the time. And he — he owed her everything; he wished he had died rather than left her to walk that last half block to her apartment (the man had struck her in the head three times before dragging her into the corner of the crumbling Beaux Arts lobby, where she lay, disoriented, until a couple returning from after-theater drinks heard her moaning). There was so little he could do. He brought her gifts constantly — candy, books, flowers, funny little handmade cards announcing his love. He walked her to her therapy appointments, because she cried desperately before them, saying she didn’t want to be made to talk about it anymore, but he, coached by her father, gentled her along, saying it would help her in the end. (In truth, he feared the therapist would drive a wedge between them, push Julia to blame him, awaken her rage.) They began, carefully, to make love again. Then Julia abruptly decided that she was going to Germany to study painting and this had to be goodbye; she might in fact never return. Six months later she was back and they took up where they’d left off — until Julia decided she preferred to be with a goateed fellow who worked in a bicycle repair shop in Brooklyn. It was like that always, at nineteen and twenty-one and twenty-four. Asa would leave docilely when she sent him away, come back when she wanted him again. Like a monk (an exaggeration: he had his affairs; but nearly, nearly) he went into retreat during the hiatuses. Just as she couldn’t seem to fault him in any way for the rape, he couldn’t seem to be angry with her for leaving. She was just — Julia. He loved her. He had always loved her.
“But not like that anymore, of course,” he told Lore. When had this been? Four months after the Greek restaurant and the kiss at the door? Six? Perhaps it was not even a lie then. “Besides,” he said, “now there’s you—” and he kissed her throat so gently that it sent tremors down her thighs and into her toes.
She did not in fact believe that he did not still want Julia like that. He was a man, after all. But she believed — she thought she saw, in his behavior toward her, and toward Julia when they were all together — that they had long ago put an end to it. His ardor left nothing to be desired. In bed he was frank and appreciative. It was hard at times to believe that he and Julia had ever been lovers at all. Julia was so fragile, so brittle even (when she was not well she did not eat much, and became quite thin and wan); how could robust Asa ever have made love to her without breaking her?
Asa said he understood now what adult love could be. Something where two people did not merge so completely that they had trouble figuring out where one ended and the other began, but rather the joining of two strong, separate beings, creating a future rather than trying, over and over, to redo the past.
“You’re not afraid of us all continuing to be friends?” he asked, and Lore answered, Why should she be afraid? She adored Julia, and besides — so there! — she had been Julia’s friend before she was his lover. If she had to choose, she teased, she might choose Julia over him. With whom did she go out more, to museums and to movies, for a good glass of wine (Asa was so cheap and so serious; he would rather spend the evening reading about hydroelectric dams) — with whom, to be blunt about it, did she laugh more? Julia, she told him. You better watch your step.
Lore halts and puts her hand against the wall. She has been moving too fast and has lost her breath. She had given Asa and Julia two months once she moved out. Julia would not be able to tolerate Asa’s exclusive devotion, would start as always to chafe at his dependence on her. They would implode by the summer. But just before Thanksgiving, a friend saw them going into a movie on 23rd Street, clasping hands. Lore surprised herself, upon hearing this, by the melancholy she felt for them. What would become of them? Julia, with her dark moods, her terror of ever possessing what she wanted. Asa, with his longings for family life. Julia would never have children, she’d said it many times, and her therapists also advised against it. And now she, Lore, was the one who — though betrayed, though humiliated — would have a family, who had new life growing in her.