I also write to them and tell them my favorite memories throughout the past year. This is difficult because there isn’t a single day that has passed over the last thirty years of my life that I haven’t loved my girls more than life itself. They’ve given me more amazing memories than most people experience in a lifetime.
We’ll start with the memories, but since this is my first letter to you, I need to go back a little further—back to the first day I met you and knew that you were going to play a role in my family. I knew it the second I saw you. I just didn’t realize what it would be until I saw Ace discreetly watching you each time she passed by a front window or stepped outside.
I pray that you’ll never see this letter, and chances are good you won’t, but on the off chance you do, there are some things I need to tell you.
First and foremost, it was your father’s loss that he didn’t get to watch you grow up and become the most amazingly wonderful man alive (Ace’s description … but I agree.) Don’t carry guilt or regret in your heart for someone that doesn’t deserve it. Focus on all of the people that love you, and if you ever need a reminder, I know six Bosse women that would be happy to do so.
The next is to have fun and be silly. Regardless of how old you are, find the joys in everything you do and with the people you enjoy doing them with.
I’ve come to love you as a son in a very short period of time. I wish I’d been this close to you since the day you moved in and my daughter began climbing out her bedroom window to watch the new neighbors. She was drawn to you even before either of you knew it. I know you’ve dated other girls and resolved some problems in ways that Ace considers barbaric, but I want you to know I don’t hold any of it against you, or think any less of you. Those experiences allowed you to realize how special Ace was when you two finally slowed down and stopped dancing around one another.
And my Ace, my Ace is so special. There are few people that can touch someone’s soul, and Ace has that effect with just a smile. There’s no way I can put into words how special she is, and I’m sure you know exactly what I mean when you read this, because she’s becoming your Ace.
If something is to ever happen to me I fear she’s going to run. You’ve already seen that she runs from troubles. Thankfully, she’s pretty much always run home to me, and I will say that although hearing and seeing her unhappy breaks my heart, knowing that she can come to me and feel safe has always been one of my greatest accomplishments. I’ve noticed lately that she’s begun turning to you. At first this really hurt me; she’s never chosen anyone over me … ever. That’s how I knew how much she cared about you. That week after your birthday she came all the way home to seek comfort from me, and then left me to go to you, and from there forward she began to seek comfort and support from you. Please, Max, from the very depth of my soul I plead to you to give it to her. I know it’s silly and pointless to ask, you’ve told me yourself how much you love her, and I know in my heart that it’s true. However, if she loses me too early, which she won’t—I refuse to go!—but for the sake of my sanity, if something does happen, you have to let her go.
It will hurt. It will hurt like hell, and I apologize from the bottom of my heart, but she’ll be lost in a way she never has been before. She’s going to question things, probably all things, and she’ll need to realize where her safety and comfort lies. You can’t tell her. You really can’t tell Ace many things. She has to feel it or experience it.
I wrote in her letter some advice that I hope will guide her and offer support, but Ace has always hated putting the last piece of the puzzle in; finality has always scared her, so I don’t know when she’ll read it.
She’s smart though, and she loves you more than she’s ever loved anyone. I dreaded losing Ace more than any of my girls because I feared losing my best friend, and I feared she’d never find someone that helped her become a stronger version of herself. But you, Max, I give you my Ace. I look forward to the day I get to walk her down the aisle and officially give you my daughter. If I’m not there, let her know I’m watching. I will always be watching out for the two of you.
Don’t let her scare you, Max, and don’t give up on her. She’ll be there, I guarantee it.
You can share this letter with her if you’d like. I’d like for you to when she’s ready so she can be reminded of my support and love for you guys.
Love,
Your father next door
PS
If I miss your first child—I pray this won’t happen but if I do—I want it on the record that I call it a boy.
Take care of my heart, Max. I’m leaving her in your hands.
I read the letter again as soon as I finish it as tears fall to my lap. After I read through it again, I look up at Max and wipe a tear away with my knuckle.
“God, I miss him.”
He nods and places a hand on my bare knee. “I know you do.”
“I’m sorry I didn’t know how to find myself here.”
Max shakes his head and releases a long breath. “I’m sorry I thought he was crazy. I should have waited. I should have gone and gotten you. I nearly did. I even bought tickets once. I didn’t know what in the hell to do because I didn’t want to force myself on you and have you run further, and yet after a while it seemed like you were never coming back.”
Another tear falls down my cheek and this time it’s Max’s finger that rises and brushes it away, and as he does I lean into it, savoring the warmth of his skin, and gentleness behind his touch.
“I love you, Ace. I love you so much it hurts. I want to be your home. I want to be everything for you.”
It feels like my soul and my heart are smiling. Everything that’s happened over the last year and a half has led me to this moment, to learning who I am. I know that I don’t need Max to support me in any way because Kitty’s taught me that I can do that for myself. I need Max to live though, and to breathe, because he’s what makes this trip worth taking.
I don’t wait another moment, I kiss Max with all of the love and passion, and desire that’s been stirring in me for what feels like years.
When we part, I focus on each of his features, tracing lines and planes that I have been seeing in my thoughts for the past year. Everything about him still feels familiar, everything but the hesitation I see lining his bright blue eyes, and the space between us that we both feel uncertain about crossing even though we’ve both professed our feelings. This is going to take time for us.
“We’re going to have to learn to trust each other again.” My voice is soft, but my conviction is firm. “I want to be the girl you fell in love with, but I’m worried. I’m worried that I’m not her anymore, because I’ve changed a lot this year.”
“If you’re more concerned about me…” Max’s bottom lip curves inward and his tongue slowly traces it as his eyes move over my shoulder for a few seconds before returning to mine “…you’re still the same person, Ace. You’re still strong, and funny, and kind, and smart, worrying way too much about others … just now, now you’re starting to see yourself. It amplifies all of the things that I love about you.” Max’s hand runs through his hair and his eyes drop. “I need to tell you about Erin. I need to apologize because—”