“Did you make any new friends?”
“Yes.”
“There’s a girl across the street that has taken a liking to her,” Mom said. “It’s the first time in a while—she hasn’t had a friend in years.”
“Why do you have to tell my life story?” I asked her.
“You don’t like it when your mom speaks for you?”
“She has this need to tell everyone we meet that I have this disorder. But then she told me not to say too much about myself, because it might scare people off.”
“I told you that in seventh grade, after what those girls did to you,” Mom argued. “But your last doctor suggested that I inform the school, family members, and friends. People need to know what you’re dealing with.”
“Why does every guy you date need to know?”
Mom opened her mouth to protest, but the doctor broke in. “Does your new friend know?”
“No, and I want to keep it that way.”
“She really has come a long way.” Mom repeated herself, as always. “When she was little, she had a lot of run-ins with other kids, and I had a hard time getting her to bathe or—”
“Mom!”
“But now”—Mom uncrossed her legs and sat up—“she’s doing better in school, and her, um, you know, grooming habits have improved, and—”
“You always got shampoo in my eyes. That’s why I didn’t like it.”
“Even when I got you the tear-free shampoo, you still resisted. But that’s not the poi—”
“No, it’s not the point. Because I was five then, and I’m sixteen now. I take showers every day, I brush my teeth every night, I wear deodorant—even shave my legs. Because you wouldn’t shut up about it. ‘Comb your hair, Drea. Wear some perfume, Drea. Spend ninety million hours staring in the mirror like I do, Drea.’”
Mom rolled her eyes and sighed.
“If I may break in here,” Dr. Weber said. “I think your mother is trying to tell you that she’s proud of your progress.”
“Exactly,” Mom said, bobbing her head.
“Would it work better for you if your mom simply told you she was proud of you—rather than bringing up the past?”
“Yeah, because she never says that,” I said.
“I say it all the time.”
“No. You tell me to take my pills, you bring up things I did ten years ago, you remind me to brush my hair—but you never say you’re proud.”
“How’s your mood been?” Dr. Weber moved on.
“Like it always is.”
“Any negative thoughts or excessive worries?”
“Yeah, I’ve already been diagnosed with GAD. It’s in the file.” Doctors stuck me with generalized anxiety disorder in junior high when I began surfing the Web and self-diagnosing myself with everything from lupus to rabies and having panic attacks over it.
“I’m sorry,” Mom said. “She’s been really irritable with the move.”
The doctor raised her eyebrows, nodding. “You’ve moved quite a bit, huh?”
And this would be the part of the meeting where Mom goes over our financial troubles and my lack of a father—all in an effort to excuse the fact that, as her friends say, she changes cities like she does underwear.
“How much of the XR is she currently taking?”
“When I can get her to take it, twenty milligrams,” Mom said.
“How do you feel when you take it, Drea?”
“Like a zombie.”
“Right when it kicks in, or is that something you feel later?”
“It gets worse later,” I said.
“She gets more irritable at night—after it wears off,” Mom chimed in. “But it really helps during the day. She’s less impulsive and calmer.”
“And I lose weight since it kills my appetite.” I motioned to my body. “And let’s face it, there isn’t much to lose.”
“Can you hop on the scale for me?”
I rolled my eyes and prepared myself for the inevitable questions—how did I feel about my body? Have I ever thrown up on purpose? Blah blah blah. Every doctor had to rule out eating disorders.
I stepped on the scale, and she peered over my shoulder, scribbling 100.5 in her little notebook.
“Well, I wouldn’t want to see you lose any more weight. Go ahead and step off.”
At least this doctor kept her comments to a minimum.
I plopped back into the yellow rocking chair and gazed out the window. Naomi was out there somewhere—probably having a great time. Who knew what Justin and Kari were doing. Probably kissing or more. I wondered what it would be like to kiss Justin. Ew, no. Scratch that thought.
“We’ve got a couple of options,” the doctor said. “Some of my patients take the XR form in the morning and then an immediate-release tablet about eight hours later. It keeps them from crashing in the late afternoon.”
“That won’t keep her up all night?” Mom asked.
“It shouldn’t. The IR is much shorter acting. Lasts an average of four hours. There is also an ADHD drug that isn’t a stimulant—it may not suppress her appetite as much,” the doctor rambled on. “I also think an SSRI would help, especially with some of the irritability and anxiety.”
“I’ve been on antidepressants. I hate them,” I said.
She glanced down at the papers and nodded. “How do they make you feel?”
“Like shit.”
Mom put her face in her hands and shook her head. “I’m so sorry.”
“It’s quite all right. It’s not easy trying out all these different meds, but sometimes it takes a while to find a combo that works.” She went on to suggest the SNRIs, a newer form of antidepressants, because they tend to have milder side effects. “They increase your levels of norepinephrine as well as serotonin. That seems more effective in some people.”
“What if none of them work?” I asked.
“Well, there’s no magical cure out there. We’re simply looking for a combo that benefits you most and causes the fewest side effects. A bigger part of the equation is how much you’re willing to do for yourself, Drea.”
I wondered if she’d ever tried multiple combinations of drugs.
“I’m starving,” Mom announced as the three of us got back into her green Toyota.
“It’s only three thirty, Juliana.” Grandma was still grouchy because they had nothing but People magazine in the waiting room.
Mom rolled down the window and backed the car out. “So? We need to drop off Drea’s prescriptions, and there’s a pharmacy right near a café someone recommended to me last night. Figured we’d go try it out.”
“One of your square-faced dates?” The computer had replaced Mom’s late-night trips to bars.
“Don’t start, Drea. He seems really sweet.”
“Of course he does. They all start off that way.”
“Who?” Grandma asked.
“Mom’s computer boyfriends.”
“Drea.” Mom squinted at me in the mirror.
“Computer boyfriends? Don’t you ever watch the news? A young woman was just found murdered near the border. And do you know who the prime suspect is?” Grandma poked Mom’s arm. The five- and six-o’clock news were her religion.
“I can’t imagine.” Mom shook her head.
“A man she met on her computer. And do you know what else they’re saying? People can get your social security number, your bank account information, and”—Grandma yanked on Mom’s elbow—“your address. They break into your computer and find all this.”
“Yeah, but it usually only happens to dumb people who respond to e-mail scams or download viruses,” I said.
“Viruses?” Grandma opened her mouth and closed it again.
“Anyway, he says they have a lot of vegetarian options, Drea,” Mom said as we pulled into a parking spot downtown.