“Do you remember the first time we met?” I said to Nara, again avoiding the day’s most important theme in hopes that he would not pressure me.
“Of course I do — at the Beaubourg library, when I caused you to drop that big stack of books you’d just borrowed.”
Yes, that was Narayana: my savior angel who immediately and profusely apologized for knocking against me and then helped me to pick up the numerous heavy volumes I had borrowed. I remember the incident clearly. We were both freshman at the Sorbonne and still completely green behind the ears. How could I ever forget that event? But had there been a special sign, something telling us that we were fated to be together?
My father often said that “Light My Fire” by The Doors and the songs of Led Zeppelin were songs that always reminded him of the early days of his marriage to my mother, after the May Revolution in Paris.
“Your mother and Paris set me on fire,” said my father, who was more than prone to romanticizing the past. What songs were playing when I first met Nara? I couldn’t say for sure.
“What’s up?” Nara asked, interrupting my daydream.
I shook my head but finally saw that it was time to enter the territory of Professor Dupont and my final assignment: Indonesia. I told Nara quickly what Dupont had advised, in just three short sentences. I didn’t wish to rerun the entire embarrassing episode.
“Indonesia? He’s suggesting that you make a documentary about Indonesian politics?”
“Not ‘suggesting.’ ‘Commanding’ is the word. He said that I have to make something related to Indonesia, that I need to explore my roots. Seek out what it is that has shaped me — or some kind of philosophical thing like that.”
Nara frowned, but he didn’t seem put off by the idea, not like I was. In fact, he seemed to be mulling over my professor’s crazy suggestion.
“Alors…”
“Alors, quoi?”
“It’s not actually a bad idea.”
I looked at Nara’s handsome face. He mostly took after the Lafebvre side of the family: blue eyes, brown hair, fair skin, and rosy lips. His aquiline nose divided his face symmetrically and his cleft chin made most female students want to make love with him. Everyone said that Nara’s face belonged on a Hollywood billboard, pasted next to that of an equally attractive actress in some kind of fluffy romantic film comedy with an implausibly happy ending to its story. Justifiably, I suppose, Nara always got mad at me when I posed such a notion — linking his handsome appearance to something shallow and stupid. Being typically French, Nara was cynical about most things American. He had inherited a true French character. I saw almost no trace of Jayanti Ratmi in him, except for his fluency in Indonesian, and his academic interest in Asia.
“Didn’t I once suggest that you make a documentary film about Indonesia — which you angrily dismissed?”
“Oui, I remember. But, Nara, this is about a country I have never even been to. The only way I know it is through the books my parents own, the literature I’ve read, and a few National Geographic documentary films. It’s a country I know from the stories my father and his three friends have told me, whose firsthand knowledge of the country ended in 1965.”
“That’s more than enough for your final assignment. This is for your B.A., after all, not your master’s or PhD. Your father and his friends are witnesses to history, Lintang.”
I said nothing.
“You have the discipline. I know you can finish the work on time,” said Nara with conviction in his voice.
What Nara should have understood is that this was not an academic problem. He’d already known me three years and was sensitive enough to know that this problem was far more complex for me than simply a matter of writing a scenario, filming interviews, and editing my film record.
Nara held my chin, then stroked it with his hand.
“It might be time for you to see your father.”
“I went by the restaurant this morning, but couldn’t make myself step inside.”
I stood. Goodbye, Jim. I want to say hello to my friend Oscar.
Monsieur Oscar Wilde, please tell me if it’s important for a person to look for her roots when she is already a tree, standing tall? You are an Irish poet, a tree who openly flaunted your sexual orientation in an age when such things were secret and not spoken of in polite society; the novelist who created Dorian Gray, a man of androgynous beauty immortalized in a painting that aroused its viewers. Tell me whether a tree, which stands upright and whose branches reach firmly for the sky, should bow in search of its roots for a name? For an identity?
Neither Oscar nor his bones offered a reply. The grandiosity of Wilde’s tomb, with its sumptuously curved stonework, seemed to accurately reflect the nature of the man as described in his biographies: flamboyant and flirtatious. His lovely tombstone did not condescend to answer my question. But what I could see when I looked at it were images of my father at a much younger age walking among the tombstones of famous people, while holding the small hand of a girl seven years of age. I watched as he explained to the girl how even a warrior as great as Bhisma could fall in the battle of all battles; and how Bhisma could not die, even with his body pierced by hundreds of arrows from the bows of Srikandi and Arjuna, because he alone had been granted the boon to choose the time of his death.
“Bhisma chose to die the day after the war had ended,” Ayah said to her, “and when he did die, his death was witnessed by the Pandawa brothers, their Kurawa cousins, and the gods.”
I saw the seven-year-old girl pestering her father with innumerable questions. What a nagger she was! Tales from the wayang world, the land of the shadow theater, were as fascinating as they were baffling for her. How incredible that a person whose body was shot full of arrows could still choose his time of death.
Ayah then spoke to the young girl about the wayang characters who were closest to his own heart: Bima and Ekalaya.
It took a few moments for me to realize that the seven-year-old girl who was there, playing with her father, in Père Lachaise Cemetery, was I. How very odd it was, I thought, that when I was such a young age, my father had introduced to me the concept of death through stories from the Mahabharata: about Bhisma, who chose his time of death; about Bima, who was forced to agree to Krisna’s plan to sacrifice Gatotkaca as bait to Karna in the duel against Arjuna; and about Ekalaya, the best bowman in the universe, who had even once defeated Arjuna.
But in those stories, Ayah also inserted his own hopes, whose tone was that of a person’s final wishes: “Like Bhisma, I too would like to choose the place where I take my final rest,” he said half to himself.
At first I thought Ayah wanted to be buried here, in Père Lachaise, among the writers, musicians, and philosophers he admired. I didn’t know at the time that that would have been impossible. And it wasn’t until later, when I was some years older, that I realized my father wanted to be buried in Indonesia. When Ayah introduced me to the poetry of Chairil Anwar, only then did I come to realize that, like the poet, he wanted to be buried in a Jakarta cemetery called Karet, a name that sounded so exotic to my ear.
Nara slowly approached and put his hand on my arm, a soothing feeling.
“This is an anxious spring,” he said, looking at Oscar Wilde’s tomb.
I could never be angry with Nara for long. Next to Maman, he most understood my heart. He knew there was inside me a space I didn’t know, an odd and alien space called Indonesia. Although we were the same generation and both born in Paris to French and Indonesian parents, the difference between us was that Nara and his parents could go in and out of Indonesia freely, while Ayah and his three friends would always be repulsed by a force called the “September 30 Movement”—to which the Indonesian government had later come to affix the phrase “of the Indonesian Communist Party.”