That is the last glimmer, the last scene after the sudden disappearance of my father that remains shrouded in darkness and uncertainty. There are no further memories until light finally dawns. A few days later, my mother finally told me her plans, and I discovered that this summer would be different from any other and that after our stay in La Coruña, we would not be moving, as we usually did, to some rented house on the Mediterranean coast. I learned that we would stay in Galicia for the whole of July and August, until the first of September, when my mother would go back to Madrid alone, and that afterward, I would not rejoin her — she would send me my winter clothes and my most important possessions and I would remain with my aunt in La Coruña. I learned that my mother would close up our apartment in Madrid and that, with the possible exception of vacations or the occasional weekend, for ten long months we would live in different cities, me in La Coruña, studying at a school my aunt had found for me, and my mother in Paris, working as a teacher of Spanish, although she had yet to find a post; and this sudden revelation was not in the least traumatic. In a way, I knew the step my mother was taking was not an easy one, and even more importantly, I was convinced that she was taking the step not because it was inevitable but because she had chosen to. No one told me my father was the reason for this, but that’s how I interpreted it. In some way, I preferred to feel that, after the great disappointment of my father’s departure, she was imposing a radical change on us, and moving to another country seemed to me a convincing way of doing this. My mother would take refuge in another city, would be unavailable, and was simply leaving me with her sister, the only person she could leave me with, her only family. At the time, I had no doubts; I didn’t feel abandoned or for one moment cease to believe her promise that this was a provisional arrangement, just while she got used to living in Paris and found a suitable apartment for the two of us.
XVIII
I don’t think I found anything strange or disquieting about what I’ve been calling my mother’s Paris period, not until right at the end, at least, when it was almost the past and no longer the present. While it was happening, I didn’t feel that anything significant would come of it. I even remember that on the day of her departure, I put on the phony indifference that children or simpletons or people unsure of their own emotions tend to adopt in highly charged situations. If my memory of that crucial moment serves me right, what frightened me, more than separation from my mother, was having to deal with the unknown quantity of life with my aunt in a city that, up until then, I’d only known in summer, and having to go to a school where, for a long time, I would be the new boy, the focus of attention and possibly the butt of jokes or jealousy, that kid from Madrid. I don’t mean that her departure left me unmoved, as had been the case with my father’s disappearance, which only affected me insofar as it might have distressed my mother. I would, of course, have preferred to continue our life in Madrid — it would be ridiculous to say otherwise — but just as I felt no malice toward her as the instigator of that move, neither did the move itself arouse in me an exaggerated sense of loss. I felt neither hurt nor sidelined by it. I suppose it was as much a natural desire not to betray my mother’s confidence in me as a more personal and perhaps artificial desire to feel that I was part of the challenge she was taking on — our union preserved despite the distance separating us.
One not insignificant factor in my almost blithe acceptance of my mother’s absence was that during the time I stayed in La Coruña, there were no disagreements between me and my aunt and her husband. It seems strange to me now, but during the months I spent with them, there were never any unpleasant surprises, no outlandish impositions or deprivations; as far as I can remember, we never experienced any of the little domestic misunderstandings that, however minor, can be extremely troubling and cause great tension, especially between people unaccustomed to living together. No doubt this was largely because my Aunt Delfina had decided that there would be no unnecessary conflicts. Yet I find it hard to believe that her decision was the sole determining factor. On the one hand, it would have been difficult to maintain a fiction over that many months, and on the other, had it been purely my aunt’s decision, it would probably have been accompanied by an excess of zeal, which was certainly not the case — childless couples who find themselves forced to play the role of adoptive parents often try to be so perfect and scrupulous in their inherited role that they turn out to be more rigid and intolerant than the real parents. More important and influential than any single decision was my aunt’s personality and the already familiar way in which she ran her household.
My aunt was an extremely restless, energetic person, one of those people who cannot imagine lingering quietly over anything or giving in for any length of time to a single feeling or emotion apart from the one that impels them into the labyrinth of some activity so diverse and so obsessive that it has no end and no beginning. She was extremely thin and prematurely lined, and she spent all her time bustling about, busily doing things that turned out to be nothing at all. She gave the impression that if she’d ever had an ambition, she had either long ago fulfilled it or given it up. She was abuzz with frenetic energy, but just as my mother checked her own natural tendency to introversion with a strong sense of duty that often transmuted into overanxiety, so my aunt never allowed her accelerated pace of life, her lack of any real focus, to come between her and what she considered important. Apart from the times they were together, when my mother would take the subordinate role and delegate some of her power to my aunt, they were very similar in temperament. As I said before, my aunt was considerably more conventional, or less flexible, in her views, but, as far as I could see and as far as I can recall, this stance was more imagined than real and could be put down to the very different world she inhabited, and it in no way influenced her relationship with me. In that respect, she was almost a carbon copy of my mother: the same or a similar sense of loyalty, the same or a similar sense of family and sacrifice, the same or a similar mix of tolerance and rigor. Living with her was very comfortable, since it did not require me to adapt to any new order. It was, if I can put it like this, as if she expected of me what I, quite naturally, was prepared to give her. Her husband’s influence, if he had any, was barely noticeable. Tall and gangly, with narrow, sloping shoulders and an almost nonexistent neck, on which sat a ridiculously large head, he was both the complement and the opposite of my aunt. A man of few words, with a permanent frown, as if he were constantly preoccupied or overwhelmed by problems, he gave the impression of being someone who leaves nothing to chance, is never plagued by doubt, and is in firm control of everything around him. His every measured, precise gesture oozed confidence, and he had a high opinion of himself, which he applied to every aspect of his life. When you saw him, especially when he was in uniform, you would assume that these attributes were all part and parcel of his military profession. However, the proof that this was very much an inner quality was that he never imposed himself on others and rarely demanded of them what he demanded of himself. He was a friendly fellow, though, and had a kindly, accommodating nature that made him a very pleasant person to deal with. Whenever we discussed matters that did not affect him personally, he would respond in the same neutral tones, never angry or bossy. Despite the marked differences between him and my aunt and the fact that they seemed to talk very rarely to each other, he clearly had total confidence in his wife, or so it seemed, and he was one of those men who, though very much an old-fashioned male — or perhaps precisely because he was incapable of shedding a particular masculine mode of behavior learned and transmitted over generations — happily did as he was told as soon as he crossed the threshold of his house. I never heard him question any decision made by my aunt. He accepted everything, including her sometimes troubling restlessness. With me, he was affable and even affectionate, in his somewhat gruff, embarrassed way, but he went no further than that and would never advise or criticize me. I fell under the jurisdiction of his wife. I was part of a domestic world in which it would never have occurred to him to interfere, not because he despised it, but because he did not feel he had the right to, it wasn’t his job, his field of expertise. My aunt reciprocated by showing the utmost respect for everything that formed part of his professional life, going to the frequent ceremonial or social events that his high rank required him to attend or where his presence was expected, and maintaining a scrupulous silence about everything else. That rigid separation of duties, that mutual consideration, did not affect their relationship. Seeing the two of them together, so cool with each other, so repetitive in their daily routine, with its daily dearth of incident, the impression they made on me (or the impression they make on me now) was one of sadness, of a lack of spontaneity and passion, one of those couples who, perhaps rather arrogantly, one tends to think are held together only by habit or by the material or emotional impossibility of even considering divorce. It seems to me, though, that in their brusque, infrequent displays of affection, in the impassivity with which he accepted my aunt’s excesses and in her bland, innocuous response to the consequences of leading a life that I can’t help thinking was a long way from any hopes she might have nurtured in her distant youth as to what her life might turn out to be, they nonetheless came very close to the image I had of a perfection I had never known at home with my own parents.