There was nothing then but numbness and résumés. Trying to figure out how fast we could keep from sinking. Could we dream money and see it show up in the checking account? How little could we spend, eat?
I tried to be good. I shopped at the cheap market. I tried to encourage everyone to eat cheap foods. Let’s all try lentil chili! We tried to appreciate the small things. Going on walks. Sunsets and the like. The decibel level in the house rose.
My husband’s hand touched my back.
There was nothing but numbness and résumés.
Then my husband’s company started behaving in a peculiar fashion. He was summoned into another windowless office. They offered to move him to this town, New Brunswick. He would have a contract for a year, and that was it. No more promises, his head guy said, as though my husband were a whiny five-year-old. We can offer a year.
IT WAS AT LEAST SOMETHING. WE LIVED IN A PECULIAR TOWN, A town that seemed to have arisen with the invention of Walmart, the housing developments resembling vinyl stage sets in which suburban mothers would run amok. The entire town fled into the local churches Sunday mornings, to soccer practice Saturday mornings. We chased them, trying to figure out where to go. We drove the wide, empty streets, we looked out the windows at the parking lots, we ate, slept, swept the floors, tried not to buy things, talked, ignored each other, waited. We tried to feel at home. We called people we met in the park, but they never called back. We sat in the apartment we were renting, alone, trying to keep the air-conditioning off because we didn’t want to pay the electric bill, sweating, mostly, lonely, arguing.
I sent my résumés out. Nothing. Nothing. The phone only rang with calls from telemarketers, who seemed a bit desperate, themselves.
— What is going to happen to us? I asked my husband. I had taken to asking him questions like this. I wanted him to be an authority on something. I wanted someone to be.
He wiped the sweat off his forehead. We were both always sweating now.
— I don’t know.
— What are the children going to think?
The children were mostly sad. They wanted only to eat sour-cream-and-onion potato chips and stare at alternative worlds on screens. Any extra energy was reserved for demands that could not be met, that seemed, in a way, nostalgic.
— I want a Wii.
— I want a Barbie head to put makeup on.
Nope, nothing, don’t even ask. It felt almost like a relief to not be able to buy this stuff, any stuff, but the problem was that others still seemed to be able to buy it; we watched.
— Why doesn’t anyone invite us over?
The kids looked at us with new, critical eyes. They sensed we had failed them, but they did not know how deeply. Some nights I dreamed of Lionel Solang, not because I wanted him, but because that moment in the conference room was the last time I felt any sort of power. Who was I? I thought, looking at my husband, who slept fitfully, containing his own crimes and sadness. Sometimes he cried out in the night.
— What’s going to happen? I asked my husband in the middle of the night. He lay beside me, naked, pale, both of us large, bewildered animals huddled under our thin Walmart sheets.
— They’ll go to college, he said.
— Not for a while, I said. — And what are we using for payment?
— Uh, he said. — Maybe you’ll dream what we should do.
We closed our eyes.
SO WE WERE HERE, IN THIS SMALL SOUTHERN TOWN, AND ONE PLACE where everyone invited us was to church. Come over to First Baptist! Presbyterian! St. John’s! Come worship Jesus with us! We said thank you but no, because, actually, by the way, we were Jews.
Oh, they said. Oh.
We were Jews in the most superficial way. In our former city, we went to Temple maybe once or twice a year. But here, we were odd enough so that people mentioned this about me in a cursory description. There is Donna. She’s new in town. By the way, she’s Jewish.
We wouldn’t call ourselves Jews ordinarily, but now we were, supposedly, Jews.
It was, in this new state of affairs, something.
OUR SON HAD A TALENT FOR SPOTTING THE TOWN’S CHASIDIC RABBI striding down the streets. The rabbi walked down the creamy, hot streets, in his long black coat and top hat, his wife with her ankle-length dresses and her extremely convincing wigs. He walked, his glasses steaming up beneath the branches of the glossy-leaved magnolia trees, the lacy pink crepe myrtle, the deep green, erotic foliage of the South.
— There’s Rabbi Jacob again.
The rabbi and his wife had a purpose. They wanted to locate any Jews in town and convince them to do Jewish things. The recession was apparently not harming them. In fact, maybe it was good for their business. He loved us. We were it. We could be holy if we wanted. The rationale for this was not clear to me, but I did know that we were like catnip to him, and that after he had located us, one month after we moved to town, he came knocking at our door. He brought us homemade challah one Friday afternoon. Then he came by to blow the shofar for us at Rosh Hashanah. In his mind, these visits were not startling intrusions but kind and welcome gifts. He came in and blew the ram’s horn, that long, bleating sound flooding our pine-walled, orange-carpeted rental. The walls were so flimsy we knew our neighbor’s TV-viewing schedule by heart. The shofar interrupted Anything For Money.
— What the hell is that sound? our neighbors shouted. — My God! Can you turn it off?
The rabbi and his wife had been sent here on a mission. They could have ended up in Bismarck or Petaluma or Mobile; they landed here, in North Carolina. Part of their job was to spread their version of wisdom. And they wanted to spread it to us.
Rabbi Jacob kept inviting us to his apartment for a Shabbat meal. He was like a suitor who could not be discouraged. There was, I will admit, something flattering about the attention, even if we thought a lot of what they believed was, well, misinformed. Why did the men and women have to sit on separate sides of the temple? Why couldn’t they have sex with each other when the woman had her period? On and on. My husband was desperate for some kind of friend here, anyone. I was not.
— It’s free food, my husband said. — Because we’re Jews, we get free food. We don’t even have to bring anything because it won’t be kosher enough. We’re totally off the hook. When else do we get a deal like that?
At least he was practical, and it wasn’t as though we had money for dinners out. He was right. It was something I loved about him.
So, finally, one day in April, we trudged over to the rabbi’s apartment one warm Saturday for a free Pesach lunch. That was the main reason we went; our own desperate loneliness and a free lunch. Perhaps that was why anyone dipped a toe into religion. I didn’t eat breakfast so that I would be particularly hungry for this event. I felt guilty that these were not really appropriate reasons, so I insisted that we pretend we were observant and walk there instead of drive. It was a mile-long walk.
— Why are we walking again?
— They don’t drive on Saturdays. So we won’t today.
— Why not?
— They just don’t. It’s their rule.
Of course, as we pretended to be observant, Lionel Solang was in my head. Of course. He came into my mind at inopportune moments; he stamped on me when I was trying to make some new start. Lionel was the only one who knew me, in a way. He knew how far I had fallen.