"… oral stimulation of the genitals of the opposite sex as fore-pleasure is regarded by many psychoanalysts as compatible with normality, provided there are no feelings of guilt or conflicts associated with the act. They may be considered accessory forms of sexual excitation. If the individuals are able to achieve satisfaction from coitus, such practices as fellatio and cunnilingus cannot in every case be labeled "abnormal."
There are many instances where the indulgence… can be regarded as a neurosis… Such cases require psychoanalytic treatment.
Sadism is the desire to inflict pain, where is masochism is the desire to receive pain. Jim and Claudia have found both. We herein cite comments from Erotic Variations by John Barry:
What are the thoughts of a sadist as he inflicts pain on a loved one, or a stranger for that matter. For the most part he is enjoying a state of erotic bliss. As for the willing victim who places his body at the sadist's disposal we find a person wallowing in guilt and begging that dire deeds be carried out.
When a sadist places his wife over his knees and spanks her, is he really spanking his wife, his mother, or an aunt? Experts are convinced that when a man beats or spanks his wife he is subconsciously punishing his mother or a female guardian. In most sadists' lives we find large amounts 'of female domination present as children. This does not indicate domination 'in the physical sense in all cases. Verbal domination can come from an overbearing mother.
Both Jim and Myron seem to enjoy the sadistic role, but, importantly, not without the inclusion of coitus. In their cases, then, it may be concluded that sadism is not necessarily a perversion per se.
Anthony Crowell I, in his Oralism and Pain, has noted that the inflicting of pain often goes hand in hand with oral lovemaking "in the minds of many people who are devoted 'to sensuality and joy."
It is also interesting that Crowell would note, in his Introduction, Oral ism and Pain, that "many of the men who become involved with mate-swapping groups or with clubs devoted simply to seeking pleasures from all sorts of sex have reported that the women, more than the males, are becoming dedicated hedonists, determined to wring the very utmost in sensual joy from their sexual activities."
In this Chapter, Claudia more than Jim seems to be propelled by the search for pleasure. She is the one who wanted and even needed the boy, Myron, while Jim, already set with a wife and a mistress, preferred to indulge in voyeurism.
Crowell's book, copyrighted in 1969, noted that a conservative estimate of mate swappers would number fourteen million, with other sources estimating a much higher number, He did agree "that a new breed is alive and functioning in the area of sexuality 'or sensuality for pleasure… " of course placing the female as the One being most interested in such activities.
Swap Clubs, by William and Jerry Breedlove, estimated eight million swinging couples in this country. The Crowell and Breedlove figures seem to be indicative of a fast-rising trend.
When Gilbert Bartell, Ph.D., discusses the common methods of swinging, open and closed, he mentions that some couples do indulge in a combination."… For their first activity, the couples go off separately and then rejoin each other after an hour or so. Then they engage in simultaneous sexual activity; or lie in bed to talk, smoke, and drink; or one couple performs as the other watches.
We never encountered a swinger who was too jaded to enjoy voyeurism… "
Authorities have also made note that many men and women use vibrators, not the least group of which includes the swappers. The most, popular of these vibrators would seem to' be the small tubular models, seven or eight-inch, which are rather inexpensive.'
Unlike the previous Chapter wherein bestiality was indulged out of curiosity, Claudia and Jim are not "curious"; they are actually quite serious about seeking their pleasures in as many ways as possible.
Perhaps this is one instance wherein this author may agree with the authorities who state that swinging can be beneficial to a marriage. It could be that this ingestion of foreign elements into an otherwise stable and lengthy marriage may be the preventative needed to keep the bond from becoming stale. Claudia and Jim may never agree verbally, but it seems, after discussions of their feelings, that they mean much the same.
We continue now with Jim's narration: "I began pumping my root quite vigorously into Rose's clutching oral cavity while Claudia fought vainly against her constricting bonds, at the same time grinding her seeping cunt onto the newly introduced vibrator. I'd never seen such a thoroughly exciting show in my life!
A nice large crop of blisters from the initial paddling was developing in a rash all over Claudia's buttocks. I licked my parched lips as I surveyed my work and agreed that it was good. Claudia's strange, sweet agony could be felt throbbing at the tip of my root and I was thankful when Rose eased the pain.by gently swirling her 'delightful tongue over it.
"Just as Claudia was beginning to get into the tempo of the vibrator, Myron again attacked her with the grater. The slaps were loud and echoed along with Claudia's wails and Myron's demented panting. I got a glimpse of his glazed eyes as he repeated his stimulation and even felt part of the pain myself when I fully noticed the tiny steel spikes biting into Claudia's flesh.
"My body became 'prickly with tiny needles as I squirmed toward the pain like a moth caressing flames. Exhausted, I fell back into the chair and Rose moaned her appreciation as I could no longer mindlessly pummel her head about as I had done earlier.
"Pinprick droplets of ruby jewels rashed Claudia's ass. I ached for her.
"Claudia, baby… my mama… 'I groaned,' do you' like it?' I could tell by her thrashing about that her body was In accord with her mind, but I needed to make certain-perhaps to appease w h a t e ye r guilt I may have been feeling at the time.
"After an interminable silence, Claudia's harsh voice gasped in a burst across the small room. 'Ooohhhh daddy… 'thank-you.' And then in mumbles: 'So good … soooo-oo good, daddy!!' "Myron had quit paddling and instead concentrated on the vibrating dildo he was so eagerly plunging in and out of Claudia's pussy My brain spun and resounded 'with the noisy sounds that emanated from her temple of good pleasure. I was even too feeble to properly direct-not that she needed my assistance-Rose on my root. Her mouth was working at maximum speed, bathing my cock in warmth and soothing saliva as her teeth worked their finery up and down the length of my shaft.
"Once again Myron lay his head under my beloved's belly, this time, it seemed, only to nibble at the expanse of her flesh as he drove the dildo deeper into her womb. I became fascinated by his swift and knowing movements-wondering where one so young would have learned 'such finesse of the trades-and found his erect and telescoping prong quite amusing.
'Without much design, I imagined my Rose seated on this proud and fiery hard erection, but seated In such a Way as to face me and be able, as well, to minister to my overpowering and frantic needs… Myron's face lay buried under the cavernous' vee and still I dreamt of Rose seated on his prong. My memory is foggy but I know that I directed Rose's attention to his magnificent and sorely lacking weapon of masculinity. She, too, was bemused by my idea-so we tried it.
"Rose jumped up on the bed and straddled him, facing me and stretching forward just enough as she directed her attention to Myron's shaft to show me how she would bathe it in her moistness. Her expert tongue flicked out and lazily swirled its Whole length, showing itself proudly to me, its father. I had taken over where her mouth left off-managing quite unsatisfactorily, I might add-and pounded 'myself even harder as I focused on that superb female tongue.
"Via hypnotic suggestion or some such, I plodded dreamily toward the sexual arena in Claudia's bedroom. When Rose noticed my nearness, she sat up slowly and carefully inserted the penis into her molten-lava coated temple of lust. I couldn't stand it and immediately pounced on her with my lips working feverishly.