Even well-adjusted swappers would not enjoy the real wild bacchanalian type orgy. Many would be offended by the openly perverse sexual abuses; while others have noted they find the larger swaps to be entirely too jaded for their own private tastes. The feeling seems to run high among swappers that the authentic orgy is too perverse, too wild, too noisy to be enjoyable. Most complain that too much happens too fast. Many swappers are surprisingly moderate and free of perverse desires.
The true orgy is a 'once-in-a-life-time' experience for most swappers. Many swappers who have attended would not do so again. Anyone who continuously seeks out such large group scenes may be suspected of being a sexual psychopath. In many cases the true orgiasts are seriously deviate. Both Darlene and Carl admit that there were some things about their 'orgy' that they enjoyed -but both claim that smaller swaps offer a lot more in intimacy and authentic sexual pleasure.
Chapter 6
Anyone who participates in group swapping activities is bound to make occasional contact with a truly bisexual partner. The true bisexual finds that most plural swapping sessions provide occasional involvement in homosexual behavior and periodic interests in bisexual activity. For this reason many single and married bisexuals seek admittance into a variety of swapping circles in order that they may more readily satisfy their dual desires.
Many bisexual orgies consist of group sessions of seance-a-trois and menage-a-trois. Surprisingly many married persons find it convenient to admit a third party into their living quarters to form a somewhat permanent sexual relationship which often involves troilism or incidents of three-way sex. Obviously both husband and wife may be to some degree bisexual since such a relationship always involves limited homosexual activity.
It has long been debated whether the bisexual is a distinct species, as different from the homosexual and heterosexual as day and night, while behaving in a manner characteristic of both; or whether he or she is merely a homosexual in hiding. Opinions vary and the bisexuals themselves (those who have undergone some degree of analysis) present a wide range of erotic interests which vary with the individual. As might be suspected some bisexuals may be more homosexual than others.
In THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LOVE authors Matt and Kathleen Galant note…
"With 1,729 women out of 2,216 surveyed and interviewed, reporting incidence of lesbian activity, the first conclusion one might reach is that the wife-swapping world has an abnormally high percentage of lesbians among the participants. The statistics showed, however, that the number of true lesbians was actually very small. What psychologists term the 'bisexual' accounted for a much larger percentage of the women." (12)
In THE LESBIAN IN GROUP LOVE authors Matt and Kathleen Galant clearly define the bisexual personality…
"A person who is sexually attracted to members of both sexes and who can reach an orgasm in the sex act with a member of either sex. It is important to add to this definition that… the true bisexual does not have ft preference in the sex of her partner for a sexual experience and treats both sexes equally." (12)
Some bisexuals are aggressive and considered the 'active* party in any sexual relationship, while others remain passive to experience with both sexes-receiving both acts of homosexual and heterosexual love-without becoming active or aggressive in such relationships. The difference between active and passive bisexuals will become clearer as we probe into this history. Tracey and Hugh Genovese, an attractive couple in their mid-thirties, are both practicing bisexuals who seem to find ample opportunity to satisfy their dual desires with other swappers.
"I've always been very active when it comes to SEX!," Tracey smiles, "I noticed that the objects of my desire seemed quite confusing at times. For example, when I was eleven I had a crush on a fourteen year old boy while I was simultaneously having an affair with a ten year old girl!"
"My seemingly contradictory desires have always bothered me. For the longest while I never knew what was wrong with me. Yes-I've always indulged in homosexual relations. I began kissing and experimentally masturbating a girlfriend. I drove my tongue into Georgina's mouth and sucked her sweet tongue. My lips moved down the valley of her breasts, nipping first one love-pod and then the other. My mouth moved down the soft flesh of her belly. I found myself 'sucking' her clitty!"
"I went all the way with a guy in high school. I could obtain an orgasm if he moved in a way to excite my clitoris. I thought about girls a lot then. I wished I was having a homosexual affair. In college I got a whopper of a rooommate. Holly was a nympho! Holly must have sensed my homosexual desires because she had no difficulty in maneuvering me into a gay alliance. Our intimate relationship progressed. We were constantly sleeping together. We could not keep our HOT hands off each other's flesh! The funny thing was Holly was also shacking up with her boyfriend. I was just about to conclude I was really homosexual when I fell hard for this guy who made oral love to me!"
"I've really worried a lot about my mixed-up sex life…," Tracey blushed. "I began wondering if I was transexual, a hermaphrodite or what. My life was so confusing because of my dual desires. I asked one guy what he thought about a girl who would sleep with men and women. He said she sounded like a crazy mixed-up queer!"
"One time when Holly was applauding sex with her boyfriend I asked her if we both were homosexuals. I thought you had to be one or the other. At that time I was having a great deal of trouble deciding which was dominant in my life."
"My God-we're neither…!" Holly blushed. "God-baby-where have you been? Don't you know what's going on all over the country? It's a 'Sexual Revolution'. A complete turning upside-down of our sexual standards. And it's about time too. It's giving people like us a chance to create our own identity."
"How do you mean… Holly?"
"It's bringing into the foreground the fact that we're not all hetero or homo… " Holly defended. "It's proving that men and women have desires for their own sex. That we're somewhat hermaphroditic in our instincts. Our teachings inhibit our natural desires for our own sex. There have always been people like us-Tracey. We're a rare breed. We're the 'bisexuals*. We're more common than most people suspect and we want the best of both worlds. I'm damn proud of it!"
"Are we over-sexed?"
"I don't think I am…," Holly argued. "You can speak for yourself. I've got no hang-ups about my desires. I hope you don't suddenly develop any moral scruples. It would ruin a damn good relationship!"
"Holly introduced me to swapping…," Tracey confided, "She told one of the guys she dated that we sometimes had sex together. He turned on to the idea. Wanted photos of us in action. Anyway I got invited to a fraternity party. Holly got me a date. We put on a homosexual performance in front of the guys. Holly n' I were doing a frantic ‘69'. We were raising hell biting each other's pussy's when two guys began moving their mouths all over our hot bodies! This guy put his mouth right on my ass-hole. He sent me ape-wild! I climbed a tree when his tongue moved around my sensitive ass! He began sucking and blowing. With Holly working my cavern good it was more than I could stand. I climaxed! After that the guys put their hands on us everywhere. Five or six mouths moved over my flesh-biting and sucking!"
"How many of you were there?"
"Four boys…," Tracey nodded. "Holly and myself. We got so well-bucked that night we could hardly walk back to the dorm. Holly and I held hands and kissed as the guys watched us. I'd be going down on one guy and Holly would be eating me out. Some stud would be slamming it up her ass. I began dating a fraternity guy. On the weekends the six of us would go to a motel and briskly abandon ourselves to polymorphous love on the king-sized mattress. We made love every way we knew how. Ted thrust this Alka-Seltzer into my vagina. He ate me out as it fizzed. It was a wild sensation. We had private masturbation sessions. Anything you can name!"