assume fatherly duties when Arthur had finished his childhood.
And the wife, what was Heinrich`s plan for her? She was the Schopenhauer family
seedpod and cradle. Dangerously vital, she had to be contained, protected, and restrained.
And Johanna? What did she feel? Trapped! Her husband and provider, Heinrich,
was her lethal mistake, her joyless jailer, the grim evacuator of her vitality. And her son,
Arthur? Was he not part of the trap, the seal to her coffin? A talented woman, Johanna
had a desire for expression and self–realization that was growing at a ferocious pace, and
Arthur would prove a woefully inadequate recompense for self–renunciation.
And her young daughter? Little noticed by Heinrich, Adele was assigned a minor
role in the family drama and was destined to spend her entire life as Johanna
Schopenhauer`s amanuensis.
And so the Schopenhauers each went their separate ways.
Father Schopenhauer, heavy with anxiety and despair, lumbered to his death,
sixteen years after Arthur`s birth, by climbing to the upper freight window of the
Schopenhauer warehouse and leaping into the frigid waters of the Hamburg canal.
Mother Schopenhauer, sprung from her matrimonial trap by Heinrich`s leap,
kicked the grime of Hamburg from her shoes and flew like the wind to Weimar, where
she quickly created one of Germany`s liveliest literary salons. There she became the dear
friend of Goethe and other outstanding men of letters, and authored a dozen best–selling
romantic novels, many about women who were forced into unwanted marriages but
refused to bear children and continued to long for love.
And young Arthur? Arthur Schopenhauer was to grow up into one of the wisest
men who ever lived. And one of the most despairing and life–hating of men, a man who
at the age of fifty–five would write:
Could we foresee it, there are times when children might seem like innocent prisoners
condemned not to death but to life and as yet all too unconscious of what their
sentence means. Nevertheless every man desires to reach old age...a state of life of
which it may be said «it is bad today, and every day it will get worse, until the worst
of all happens.»
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Inendless space countless
luminous spheres, round each
of which some dozen smaller
illuminated ones revolve, hot
at the core and covered with a
cold hard crust on which a
mouldy film has produced
living and knowing beings—this
is...the real, the world.
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Julius`s spacious Pacific Heights home was far grander than any he could now possibly
afford to buy: he was one of the lucky millionaires in San Francisco who had the good
fortune to buy a house, any house, thirty years earlier. It was his wife, Miriam`s, thirty–thousand–dollar–inheritance money that had made the purchase possible, and, unlike any
other investment Julius and Miriam had ever made, the house`s value had rocketed
upward. After Miriam`s death, Julius considered selling the house—it was far too large
for one person—but instead he moved his office into the first floor of the house.
Four steps led from the street to a landing with a blue–tiled fountain. On the left, a
few stairs led to Julius`s office, on the right was a longer stairway to his home. Philip
arrived precisely on time. Julius greeted him at the door, escorted him into the office, and
gestured toward an auburn leather chair.
«Some coffee or tea?»
But Philip did not look around as he took his seat and, ignoring Julius`s offer, said,
«I await your decision about supervision.»
«Ah, once again, straight to the business at hand. I`ve having a difficult time with
that decision. Lots of questions. There`s something about your request—a deep
contradiction—that puzzles the hell out of me.»
«Undoubtedly, you want to know why I`m asking you for supervision after being
so dissatisfied with you as a therapist?»
«Precisely. In exceedingly clear language you claimed that our therapy was a
colossal failure, a waste of three years and a great deal of your money.»
«There`s no true contradiction,” Philip replied instantaneously. «One can be a
competent therapist and supervisor even though one fails with a particular patient.
Research shows that therapy, in any hands, is unsuccessful for about a third of patients.
Besides, there`s no doubt I played a significant role in the failure—my stubbornness, my
rigidity. Your only error was to choose the wrong type of therapy for me and then persist
in it far too long. However, I`m not incognizant of your effort, even your interest, in
helping me.»
«Sounds good, Philip. Sounds logical. But still, to ask for supervision from a
therapist who gave you nothing in therapy. Dammed if I`d do it—I`d find someone else. I
have a feeling that there`s something more, something you`re not saying.»
«Perhaps a modest retraction is in order. It is not entirely accurate to say I got
nothing from you. You did make two statements that stuck with me and may have played
some instrumental role in my recovery.»
For a moment Julius fumed about having to ask for details. Did Philip think he
wouldn`t be interested? Could he be that much of a space cadet? Finally, he gave in and
said, «And which two statements?»
«Well, the first statement doesn`t sound like much, but it had some power. I had
been telling you about one of my typical evenings—you know, picking up a woman
somewhere, taking her to dinner, the seduction scene in my bedroom with the same
routine and the same mood music. I remember asking your opinion of my evening and
whether you found it distasteful or immoral.»
«I don`t remember my answer.»
«You said you found it neither distasteful nor immoral, only boring. It jolted me to
think that I was living a boring, repetitious life.»
«Ah, interesting. So that was one statement. The other?»
«We were discussing tombstone epitaphs. I don`t remember why, but I believe you
had raised the question of what epitaph I might select for myself...”
«Very possible. I`ve used that question when I feel at an impasse and need some
shocking intervention. And...?»
«Well, you suggested that I might have my tombstone engraved with the phrase
«He liked to fuck.» And then you added that the phrase could be a good epitaph for my
dog too—that I could use the same stone for both me and the dog.»
«Pretty strong stuff. Was I really that harsh?»
«Whether it is harsh or not is irrelevant. What`s important is its effectiveness and
persistence. Much later, maybe ten years later, I made use of it.»
«Time–delayed interventions! I`ve always had a hunch they`re more important than
usually thought. Always meant to do a study of that. But for our purposes today tell me,
why were you reluctant at our last meeting to mention these, to acknowledge that I had in
some way, even some small way, been useful to you?»
«Julius, I`m not sure I see the relevance of this to the issue at hand—that is,
whether you are or are not willing to be my psychotherapy supervisor? And to permit me
in return to be your Schopenhauerian adviser?»
«The fact that you don`t see the relevance makes it all that more relevant. Philip,
I`m not going to attempt to be diplomatic. Here it is straight: I`m not certain you`re
basically equipped to be a therapist, and hence I have some doubts that supervision
makes sense.»
«You say, not вЂequipped`? Clarify please,” said Philip with no trace of discomfort.
«Well, let me put it this way. I`ve always regarded therapy more as a calling than a