Indeed I did read everything I could get my hands on, and since I didn’t know a whole lot about literature, and, for what it’s worth, given my spotty education, as a tabula rasa, I had no problems finding room within myself to absorb other writers’ techniques — in other words, I became a good mimic. If I read Conrad on a Monday, I started to write (somewhat) like him on a Tuesday; if I dipped into one of E. A. Poe’s fantasias at bedtime, I dreamed of writing like him in the middle of the night. (My collected prose of E. A. Poe, by the way, which my friend Richard gave me those years ago as a Christmas present, I still have on my shelves today.) Just about everything I read, save for certain aforementioned writers, fired me up, and for at least a few years, while under the spell of Barthelme, I began to reconsider my original notion of becoming a schoolteacher. (Then, thinking about the odds against my ever having a real shot of ever earning a living as a writer, I’d fall back on my old plans.)
I was superstitious as well, always have been. When, for example, I found out that Jorge Borges and I (“Borges y yo”) shared the same birthday, I went through an afternoon of cigarettes-and-vino-fueled elations, swearing that this coincidence was a sign from God that I had been cut from the same cloth as the great Argentine writer. (On the other hand, I also shared that date, August 24, with Lyndon Johnson.) You’d think I would outgrow such a naïve notion, but decades later, while feeling a terrific lack of confidence about writing another book of mine, A Simple Habana Melody, which was based on the life of the Cuban Tin Pan Alley composer of “El Manicero,” Moisés Simons, who ended up in a concentration camp during World War II — who would believe it, right? — my discovery that he too shared my birthday seemed to me another divine sign, as if the spirit of Simons accompanied me. (And since I’m on that subject, I may as well mention that I also share my birthday with several great Cuban musicians: Benny Moré and Bola de Nieve, who, before I had that knowledge, were already my favorites.)
As I sat in his office in the Quonset hut one afternoon going over something, Barthelme surprised me by suggesting that I might consider the University of Iowa writing program as a possibility for my future. He apparently had quite a bit of pull there and seemed to imply that if I so wanted to, he could get me in.
“Would that at all interest you?” he asked me that day, almost nonchalantly. “It might help you shape up.”
I wasn’t quite sure what he meant by the phrase “shape up,” but I knew that the idea of going to Iowa seemed revolting — even unthinkable — to me; it just seemed so “white bread.” I didn’t even consider its reputation as a prestigious first-rate writing school, or that, in fact, Barthelme, a generous but private man, was trying to do me an enormous favor. (I think he must have viewed my work as very raw but promising.) All I could think was No way, answering Barthelme with a shrug that must have, on some level, pissed him off. Without realizing it, I was turning my back on a golden opportunity: Truth be told, I really didn’t feel that I deserved it, nor did I think in terms of a life commitment to a career in writing. In fact, even though I’d later accept a fellowship into the MFA program at City, mainly to defer having to enter the workplace, I never went through a day feeling that such schooling would ever lead to anything. I considered most of my fellow students far more gifted, smart, and ambitious than I; if this sounds like false humility, you have to remember that, while one part of me occasionally believed in myself, the other continued to be plagued by doubts. Despite an occasionally cheerful exterior, I remained privately morose and overly reflective in a way that was the opposite of hip — which, as I will define it here and now, has to do with an effortless and unforced expression of the inner soul. In other words, I continued to be anxious: Sometimes I’d smoke through a pack of cigarettes even if they tasted lousy, left my throat smarting, and gave me the jitters, simply because, having opened that pack, I felt I had a responsibility to finish them. Mainly, I saw that stupidity as a way of passing my time, to forestall the gloom into which I easily sank.
Nevertheless, I seemed to take what I can only think of now as my endless reserves of nervous energy and let it pour into my writing — pages and pages of it, and with a one-foot-in-front-of-another manner, as if, in fact, I were constructing the brick wall of a house. I had a very working-class attitude about writing, as if turning up at a job — I guess that was my pop’s lingering influence. As a student, I mainly aimed to please. Though I tended to be guardedly friendly with Mr. Barthelme and remained respectful of his standing (as a critical darling of The New York Times and a longtime contributor of fiction to The New Yorker magazine, he was at the peak of his reputation), I felt thrilled whenever he liked something I had come up with, even if he, in general, thought I was a little heavy-handed in my treatment of emotions. (Once when I had the hubris to tell him that I felt like I was making clocks when I write my stories, he answered, rather skeptically, “Yes, clocks that go BONG, BONG, BONG!”)
Altogether, he didn’t seem to mind the notion of hanging around me. One Christmas, he came up to my place on West Eighty-third from the Village with a fifth of Johnnie Walker Red and sat in a chair in the corner while a party of much younger folks raged around him, refusing, incidentally, to touch as much as a morsel of food, his energies dedicated to sipping his Scotch and smoking instead, without much of a word to anyone. And years later, as he did with so many of his former students, he occasionally welcomed me into his apartment for drinks (many of them), but I was most stunned by the fact that when I finally did get married to my girlfriend of some three years, Carol, think it was 1975, and sent him and his wife, Marion, an invitation to what would turn out to be a quite tacky reception, held on the rooftop terrace of a midtown hotel, in a cordoned-off area right next to a busy swimming pool—“You make such a nice couple!”—he honored me by showing up. Throughout this low-budget affair, which my well-off in-laws begrudgingly paid for — only booze and hors d’oeuvres were served — Donald passed his time with his wife and several of my fellow students from CCNY, sitting by a table, nursing his drinks, stroking his beard, and taking in that fiasco with the amused expression of a rather sophisticated man who probably couldn’t have imagined himself in such a place in a million years.
Well, once again, I led a double life. Coming uptown to visit with my mother, I did my best to become a dutiful son, though my mother never had any idea of what I was doing with myself. (When I graduated from City with a B.A., with the distinction of becoming the first SEEK student to have done so, and my mother asked me, “Qué hay de nuevo?”—“What’s new?” and I answered, “I just graduated from college,” she seemed genuinely bemused.) In the meantime, the period of our troubles, which had followed my father’s death, when his ghost filled the house, had slipped away. Oddly enough, through death he had become somewhat sanctified in her mind. With his presence lingering in the halls — as if both his struggles and, more pleasantly, his peaceful, stoic quietude in the mornings had left aftertraces that one could literally still feel — the reality that he was gone had finally set in. “I now realize how much he loved me, el pobre,” she would say. For my part, I couldn’t disagree: Better to have her speak of my pop kindly than not, though she had, in the meantime, made that apartment a museum to their life together and it would always feel frozen in time.