The phrase "we (I) (you) simply must-" designates something that need not be done. 'That goes without saying" is a red warning. "Of course" means you had best check it yourself. These small-change clichés and others like them, when read correctly, are reliable channel markers.
Do not handicap your children by making their lives easy.
Rub her feet.
If you happen to be one of the fretful minority who can do creative work, never force an idea; you'll abort it if you do.
Be patient and you'll give birth to it when the time is ripe. Learn to wait.
Never crowd youngsters about their private affairs-sex especially. When they are growng up, they are nerve ends all over, and resent (quite properly) any invasion of their privacy. Oh, sure, they'll make mistakes-but that's their business, not yours. (You made your own mistakes, did you not?)
Never underestimate the power of human stupidity
VARIATIONS ON A THEME-XI
The Tale of the Adopted Daughter
Stand with me on Man's old planet, gazing north when sky has darkened; follow down the Dipper's handle, half again and veering leftward- Do you see it? Can you sense it? Nothing there but cold and darkness. Try again with both eyes covered, try once more with inner vision, hearken now to wild geese honking, sounding through the endless spaces, bouncing off the strange equations- There it glistens! Hold the vision, warp your ship through crumpled spaces. Gently, gently, do not lose it. Virgin planet, new beginnings- Woodrow Smith, of many faces, many names, and many places, led this band to New Beginnings, planet clean and bright as morning. End of line, he told his shipmates. Endless miles of untouched prairie, endless stands of uncut timber, winding rivers, soaring mountains, hidden wealth and hidden dangers. Here is life or here is dying; only sin is lack of trying. Grab your picks and grab your shovels; dig latrines and build your hovels-next year better, next year stronger, next year's furrows that much longer.
Learn to grow it, learn to eat it. You can't buy it; learn to make it! How d'you know until you've tried it? Try again and keep on trying- Ernest Gibbons, né Woodrow Smith, sometimes known as Lazarus Long, et al., President of New Beginnings Bank of Commerce, walked out of the Waldorf Dining Room. He stood on the veranda, picking his teeth and looking over the busy street scene. Half a dozen saddle mules and a loper (muzzled) were hitched just below him. Up the street to the right a mule train from out back was unloading at the dock of the Top Dollar Trading Post (E. Gibbons, Prop.). A dog lay in the dust in the middle of the street; mounted traffic went around him. Across the street to his left a dozen children played some noisy game in the yard of Mrs. Mayberry's Primary School.
He could count thirty-seven people without moving from that spot. What a change eighteen years made! Top Dollar was no longer the only settlement, or even the largest. New Pittsburgh was larger (and dirtier), and both Separation and Junction were large enough to be called towns; This from only two shiploads and in a colony that had almost starved its first winter.
He did not like to think about that winter. That one family-cannibalism had not actually been proved-still, it was just as well that they were all dead. Forget it. The weak ones died, and the bad ones died or were killed; the stock that survived was always stronger, smarter, more decent. New Beginnings was a planet to be proud of, and it would get better and better and better for a long time.
Still, almost twenty years was long enough to stay in one place; it was time to ship out again. In many ways it had been more fun when he and Andy, God rest his sweet innocent soul, had gone banging around the stars together, lining up real estate and never staying longer than necessary to assess potentialities. He wondered if his son Zaccur would be back on time with a third load of hopefuls.
He lifted his kilt and scratched above his right knee-checked his blaster-hitched at the belt band on the left, checked his needle gun-scratched the back of his neck, made sure of his second throwing knife. Ready to face the public, he considered whether to go to his desk at the bank or to the trading post and check that incoming shipment. Neither appealed to him.
One of the hitched mules nodded at him. Gibbons looked at him, then said, "Hi, Buck. How are you, boy? Where's your boss?"
Buck closed his lips tightly, then said explosively, "Pannnk!"
That settled one point: If Clyde Leamer had hitched here instead of in front of the bank, it meant that Clyde intended to use the, side door and was looking for another loan. Let's see what effort he makes to find me.
Skip the trading post, too-not only would Clyde look there next but it wasn't fair to make Rick nervous by showing up before he had time to steal his usuals; good storekeepers were hard to come by. Rick was always honest-5 per cent, no more, no less.
Gibbons felt in his shirt pocket, found a sweet, gave it to Buck on the flat of his hand. The mule took it neatly, nodded thanks. Gibbons reflected that these mutant mules, fertile and breeding true, were the biggest help to colonizing since the Libby Drive. They took cold-sleep easily-when you shipped swine, half your breeding stock arrived as pork-and they could look out for themselves in many ways; a mule could stomp a wild loper to death.
He said, "So long, Buck. Going for a walk. Walk. Tell Boss."
"Shoh-rrrongl" acknowledged the mule, "Pye!"
Gibbons turned left and headed out of town while considering how big a loan to offer Clyde Learner with Buck as security. A good-tempered, smart stallion mule was a prize- and about the only unmortgaged asset Clyde had left. Gibbons had no doubt that a loan on Buck would put Clyde back on his feet-literally-as soon as the loan was due. Gibbons felt no pity. A man who couldn't cut the mustard on New Beginnings was worthless; no sense in propping him up.
No, don't lend Clyde a dollar! Offer to buy outright-at 10 percent aver a fair price. A decent hardworking animal should not belong to a lazy bum. Gibbons had no need for a saddle mule-but it would do him good to ride an hour or so each day. Man got flabby sitting in a bank.
Marry again and give Buck to his bride as a wedding present-A pleasant thought, but the only Howards on planet were married couples and not one with a husband-high daughter-as well as all being in masquerade until the place grew populous enough that the Families would set up a clinic here. Safer. Once burned, forever shy. He avoided Howards, and they avoided each other, on the surface. Be nice to be married again, though. The Magee family-actually Barstows-had two or three girls growing up. Maybe he should pay them a call someday.
In the meantime- He felt gusty and good, stuffed with scrambled eggs and wicked thoughts, and wondered where there was a female who felt the same way and could duck out and share their interest. Ernie knew several who shared his enthusiasm-but not available at this time of day, not for a casual romp. Which was all he was wanted; it was not fair to engage in anything serious with an ephemeral no matter how sweet she was-especially if she was truly sweet.
Banker Gibbons was at the edge of town and about to turn back when he noticed smoke from a house farther out-the Harper place. What had been the Harper place, he amended, before they homesteaded outback, but now occupied by, uh, Bud Brandon and his wife, Marje-nice young couple from the second shipload. One child? He thought so.
Running a fireplace on a day like this? Possibly, burning trash-Hey, that smoke is not from the chimney!