in this direction or that. Key characteristics may come into play when the chips are down, but this is seldom the
situation and most of life allows the true orientation to be masked by personality, subterfuge, or such structured
situations that the orientation of the individual does not have an opportunity to express.
Take the example of an office setting, where assignments are meted out to individuals but team work is stressed. To
the manager, the extroverted young man recently hired may seem to be doing more than his share, at least to hear him
talk, as he has many stories detailing how his expertise or enthusiasm for challenge came to the rescue of the group.
But check with the individual members of the team, and one learns that the reverse is true, as he was the one who required rescuing and feigned ignorance until other members of the long-suffering team did his work for him. When
he gets a raise and a nod, the team is puzzled, as it would not occur to them to report him to the manager for taking more than he is giving. They considered him in need of help, a youth in need of guidance, and took him under their
wings. This type of going behind the back and taking credit is a frequent sign that the individual is operating primarily in the Service-to-Self, or is heading in that direction.
Take an example in the military, where soldiers train and then suddenly find themselves on the front lines in a
conflict. During training exercises, the officers in charge can be lead greatly astray by bravado in safe and
controlled exercises. Those individuals who excelled, exhorted their fellows to greater efforts, and who showed
leadership are assumed to do the same in battle. Yet more often than not, it is the quiet soldier who made no
efforts to take the spotlight who must step into the fray and assume the true leadership position. This de facto
leader may find himself put into danger, deliberately, so the leader with the title can take credit afterwards. Dead
men tell no tales, and the record in combat stands at odds with the awards and promotions, so any rumors are
discounted. Placing someone else in danger to retain a title or position is a strong sign of an individual in the
Service-to-Self, and rarely occurs unless the individual has made their orientation decision.
Take the example of a nurse, required by law and the rules of the hospital where she works to maintain life in
her patients regardless of the level of unremitting pain they are experiencing or the pleas they may be laying
before her. She has at risk her job, her status, her ability to support her family financially, and most certainly her
freedom should she be persecuted under the law, but she determines to listen to those pleas. Certain medications that sustain the living dead, the writhing mass of agony that is in a certain death march, are flushed down the
toilet rather than forced into the arm of the patient. Who is to know? Most certainly the patient, who can barely
speak except to whisper pleas, will not complain. This type of risk taking, when there is utterly no benefit to the
self but rather great risk to the self, is a strong sign of an individual in the Service-to-Other.
Take the example of children in a household where the mother is ill, chronically so, and the children expected to
assume her responsibilities. The father works long and hard, and has no patience with chores undone. Some of
the younger children need help with their chores, especially as they fail to watch the clock and can be caught
rushing to do them when father walks in. The oldest is a girl who herself slips her chores to her younger siblings,
leaving them half done so it is not clear who was inattentive. If this girl is to dry and put away the dishes but
another child is to set the table, she places the dried dishes on the table rather than into the cupboard, confusing
the issue. That her little brother gets whipped for pulling too many dishes out of the cupboard bothers her not.
She thinks of hairstyles and makeup and meeting the right boy at the mall. The chips can fall where they may.
This type of lack of concern for others can be attributed to inattention, but where one has seen a sibling whipped
and can anticipate this in the future, it is not inattention but lack of regard, a sure sign of an individual oriented to themselves, in the Service-to-Self.
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ZetaTalk: Distinguishing Characteristics
In this same example, one of the younger children, a boy, does half the chores for two of his siblings. He works
with them, showing them how to do the chores, and in this way not only makes sure the chores are done but are
done to the exacting father's measure. In this he doesn't take credit for the chores, but praises his siblings. He
also gives up after-school games and parties to ensure that his siblings aren't caught with poorly done chores,
knowing the father is awash in fatigue and worry and can take all this out on the household if given half an
excuse. This boy, still only a child himself, is giving evidence of his strong orientation in the Service-to-Others.
The characteristics are not only that he is helping others, but that he seeks to make them strong and self
sufficient and will sacrifice his own pleasure to ensure that others do not suffer.
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ZetaTalk: By What Names
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ZetaTalk: By What Names
Note: written Aug 15, 1995
Humans have a saying - a Rose by any other name would smell as sweet. The aliens visiting Earth have a fragrance
too, in a manner of speaking, which by any name is just as succinct and identifiable. There are Service-to-Self and
Service-to-Other visitors, and these divisions are distinct. This is a name we are insisting on, as whatever else you call us, the term Service-to-Others must be included. The Service-to- Self groups, as you can imagine, prefer that term be
dropped entirely, as it tends to alert those they are trying to recruit. The Service-to-Others have almost invariably
allowed the humans being contacted to name them. Betty and Barney Hill named us, and the name, having been
publicized, stuck. Zeta is your term for the star system we came from. Likewise the Pleiadeans were named for their
home constellation. They have never minded, and the Nordics, named for their appearance, could care less. A problem
exists where the hundreds of aliens that appear to be gray to humans, because the human eye cannot perceive the color
spectrum, are all simply called grays. No one has bothered to name them, or catalog them, and the task will probably
proceed willy-nilly as contactees come forth with sketches and a catchy name sticks.
Aliens in the Service-to-Self orientation are very particular about their names, as they are pompous and concerned
about impressions. The Omnipotent Krlll, for example. They are prone to announce themselves, and insist on
ceremony. Humans confused over names, what to call this group or that are frequently reacting to frauds put forth by
the establishment, who announce the alien group or spirit, by name. Since the Service-to-Other are not particular, and
are concerned with content, not titles, any alien group announcing itself by name should be suspected as either a