Lee Jenkins
FEMALE ORGASM
Black Book
Version 1.0
CHAPTER 1
Introduction
Let me start by saying that I’m an ordinary guy, just like you. My penis isn’t the largest in the locker room. The women out there don’t mistake me for Hollywood’s latest hot celebrity. I’m not rich, or famous, I’m not a “playboy”, and I’m not exactly what you’d call a genius, though I wasn’t born yesterday either.
But I have been blessed with some pretty insightful, and more importantly, authentic, wisdom to share that has the potential to open doors to uncharted territory in your sex life. I can’t offer you increased size or a magical potion to incite lust and desire in every woman you meet.
But, if you make a solid commitment to read and practice the wisdom you’ll find over the next several chapters, I can promise that the special woman in your life will be purring like a kitten, eager and available for erotic romping more often than you’d dared to imagine. Before long, she’ll be bragging about how great you are in bed, and your buddies will be begging you to share your secrets!
You see, I’m on a mission in life to provide the keys needed to open the doors for a woman’s sexual fulfillment to as many men as desire to possess them.
You and I both know that sex and the ultimate peak of orgasm — both on a regular schedule — are an important, no, essential, part of a healthy, normal life. That’s because having an orgasm releases a powerful chemical cocktail that, among other things:
• Reduces stress
• Reduces tension
• Clears your mind
• Releases you to concentrate on other things besides sex and
• It makes you feel damn good!
In all reality, the act of orgasm is Mother Nature’s way of regulating our raging testosterone and keeps us sane, happy and smiling.
However, interrupt that “regular schedule” and it’s a whole different scenario. Once you cross that 72-hour threshold without an orgasm, you become restlessness, anxious, irritable, and aching balls enter the scene. It isn’t very much longer after that before something’s gotta give!
Lucky for us guys, reaching an orgasm isn’t rocket science. Most of us have been doing it since middle school and by now, we’ve got it down to an art!
But for the women out there, it’s a whole different story…
The Elusive Female Orgasm
Knowing you’ve made a woman cum is supremely satisfying, but not nearly as wonderful and amazing as the orgasm your lover is experiencing. Unfortunately, it’s nearly impossible to explain.
Masters and Johnson’s, a leading sexual authority, after many interviews with countless women, described it like this…
“Women often describe the sensations of an orgasm as beginning with a momentary sense of suspension, quickly followed by an intensely pleasurable feeling that usually begins at the clitoris and rapidly spreads throughout the pelvis. The physical sensations of the genitals are often described as warm, electric, or tingly, and these usually spread throughout the body. Finally, most women feel muscle contractions in their vagina and lower pelvis, often described as “pelvic throbbing.”’
But, if you ask a typical woman to describe an orgasm, and you’ll probably hear a lot of words and sounds and descriptions that lead you to believe that the female orgasm is a mystical, spiritual thing… It is!!
Could you imagine making it through next year, much less every year, without being able to orgasm yourself? Then imagine going through all of the motions, over and over, without having an orgasm. Talk about blue balls!
It probably wouldn’t take you too long to throw your hands up in disgust and decide to swear sex off for good.
You would be frustrated… and that’s exactly how a woman who has never experienced an orgasm before feels.
This is why many women who are in long term relationships don’t want to have sex as often as before. She’s frustrated, doesn’t experience pleasure from sex, and treats sex like another chore.
But that’s exactly what’s going on in the lives of countless women out there. Something’s got to change, but what?
The fact is, for the most part, you’ve got a lot left to learn about how to sexually satisfy a woman.
Why Don’t We Know More Female Orgasms?
Truth of the matter is, most guys don’t have a clue about female orgasms.
Most men simply aren’t getting a quality sexual education.
If you want to be a plumber, you simply go to a trade school, graduate, and POOF! — you’re a plumber. Why can’t it be that simply when it comes to becoming an excellent, satisfying lover?
Where did you learn about sex? Whispering with your buddies over contraband cigarettes and alcohol? Stumbling upon your Dad’s stash of pornographic movies and magazines? Those ridiculous “sex ed. classes” they gave in school?
Let’s take a look at this “education”…
First off, looking back, it’s probably safe to assume that at least 75% of the sex stories your buddies offered you were complete, unadulterated bull-shit, pure and simple.
Secondly, the porn industry isn’t the “real deal.” The scenes are scripted, the women paid to perform and most of those orgasms are faked (at least by the women). Sure, you might have picked up a few useful positions or techniques, but if porn is your only sex education, you definitely need to keep on reading.
That leaves us with school-sponsored sex education, probably the most well-funded (and successful) campaign of propaganda to convince kids and teens across the globe NOT to engage in sexual activity!
Your teachers were too busy threatening you with the nightmarish possibilities of unplanned pregnancy and STD’s and dulling your senses with complex (and totally not-sexy) charts and diagrams.
I’m willing to bet no one was sharing the goods on the G-spot, clitoris or the potential for female ejaculation!
Sure, it’s important to know about condoms, birth control, AIDS and HIV, but what you really wanted (and needed) to hear about was the fine art of cunnilingus, giving multiple orgasms and other super-secret insider tips.
And that’s what you’re about to learn in this manual!
What This Manual Is About
This manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on how to give women orgasms. The Female Orgasm Black Book is something that you can refer to time and time again.
I’ve written it with a male reader in mind, but the information in this manual is intended to help men, women and couples achieve female orgasms and have a more fulfilling sexual relationship.
The core section (The Female Orgasm Black Book) contains details of female orgasms, along with the overall “system” or “strategy” you’ll employ. I’ve also included a few techniques to illustrate what needs to be done, and when.
The other parts of the manual can be looked at as the “toolbox” of techniques. You’ll find a variety of different sexual techniques you can use to “plug-and-play” into the overall system.
OK, enough introductory talk… let’s get down to business!
CHAPTER 2
Keys to Success
One of the main things that make this book so much better than all of those other sex books is that I’ll take you through a two-step approach that addresses the whole sexual experience, instead of merely a portion.
The two aspects that this manual is going to focus upon are: