Now I suppose it is time for some revelations about Meadow Mori, which I think should be obvious to everyone, and not revelations at all. Meadow’s “affair” with Orson Welles: she loves his movies and loves him. Did she live with him for a year or even meet him? No, she did not. If you read her essay carefully, the clues are all there, at least for Welles nerds. (Wrong house, wrong date of death, Stagecoach not City Lights, etc.) Meadow was creating what she called a fabule, a wish-story about herself, half dream and half fact. I know Meadow, and I alone seem able to read her perfectly. Meadow is playful, and she tells her own truth in her own way — you just have to yield to her version of the world to see how it all fits together, surrender to her possibilities. In a sense, she is the lover of Welles. Welles the great confidence artist, the prevaricator, the big fake who tells you he is manipulating you and that makes the magic all the more magical. Sleight of hand, she is all of that. She would say film is an art form built on an illusion. Static images shown quickly create the illusion of movement. All of it is a magic trick to Meadow, and that is part of what makes it so miraculous and beautifuclass="underline" it isn’t real life. She didn’t ever meet Welles, but she loved him, the idea of him, completely. When she graduated from high school, she moved to New York to go to college just like I did. She deferred a year, rented a huge studio in a discarded and unused factory in Gloversville to make movies on her own, and when she finally tried to attend the next fall she didn’t last long in the program — she wanted to invent her own way. She — and we — created a kind of film camp in the summer of my freshman year. She got the idea from Nicholas Ray’s film commune in Binghamton, New York. [Ed’s note: Nicholas Ray made a documentary with his students called We Can’t Go Home Again, which you can find here and streaming on Netflix.] That was our only collaboration after high school.
As for this rumor that Meadow and I had a falling-out, we did not. The truth is much less dramatic. We slowly grew apart over the years, but she is still my oldest friend.
Finally, why did she quit making films? I don’t really know. Meadow stopped making films for her own private reasons. She had an accident in 1999 that I think had something to do with it. She stepped back, and now she prefers to teach film at a college in Albany and live a very modest life. I respect her choices. But I miss her work and I miss her.
I will close with what Meadow once told me about being an artist. It is partly a confidence game. And partly magic. But to make something you also need to be a gleaner. What is a gleaner? Well, it is a nice word for a thief, except you take what no one wants. Not just unusual ideas or things. You look closely at the familiar to discover what everyone else overlooks or ignores or discards.
— Carrie Wexler 1/15/15
Carrie Wexler was born in Los Angeles in 1966. She has directed six feature films including Girl School (1997); WACs (2001); Lindy’s Last Chance (2003); Making It (2008); We Are the Ones Our Parents Warned Us About (2011); A Baby! (2014). Her films have won great acclaim, including a Writers Guild of America award for Best Original Screenplay and two Golden Globe nominations for Best Motion Picture (Musical or Comedy).
Related links
Carrie Wexler, A Conversation with Mira Shirlihan: Number 8
Meadow Mori, How I Began: Installment Number 32, 2014
Meadow Mori interview, Sound on Sound, June 1999
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CARRIE TELLS THE TRUTH
Everything Carrie said publicly in her essay about Meadow was true, but she also knew much more about Meadow’s breakdown than she said. Was that the right word for it? She would never say that to anyone else, but that was it, a breakdown. And it didn’t start with the accident, it started with Sarah Mills and the film they tried to make about her back in 2001. Meadow came up with the idea as a way to exonerate her (exonerate Sarah, and in a weird way, exonerate Meadow). But it didn’t work out that way. Carrie had called Meadow after a very hard article was published in New York magazine. It was titled “Handmaiden to Monsters.” It was about Children of the Disappeared. Meadow was interviewed, but her discussion of her own film was offset by comments from Argentinean survivors — most of whom hadn’t seen the film but had heard about it. Meadow’s subtle, uncomfortable film was “a defense of genocide.” Why didn’t she include footage of the survivors, the few who escaped death in the cleansings? Or the families holding up pictures of the disappeared? Their agony was left out of this “bizarre” film. “I am interested in the perpetrators, not the victims. I want the audience to see the perpetrators as complex humans, to see that we are not all that different from the perpetrators. Not to let them off the hook, but to put us all on the hook.” But under her photo (black and white, Meadow’s long legs in jeans, her motorcycle boots on the table in the foreground making her look insolent and almost blasé at her “film factory” upstate) the caption read, “I am interested in the perpetrators, not the victims.” It was a creepy article that seemed to admire and revile Meadow for exactly the wrong reasons: here is this hot, privileged, brilliant woman, and don’t we sort of hate her and enjoy hearing people say she’s bad? The message being, who does this woman think she is? After Carrie read it, she called and left messages for Meadow at her apartment in Washington Heights and in Gloversville. “Hey, I need to see you soon. Did I mention I am pregnant? Call me back.” Finally Meadow called her back and they agreed to meet at a restaurant near Carrie in Brooklyn.
Carrie watched the door for Meadow. She probably had trouble parking, or did she say she was taking the train? Carrie shook her head at herself: she might be doomed to a hormonally induced dementia for the duration of her pregnancy. She had read a shocking number of books about it even though she knew that she tended to be highly suggestible. But she couldn’t resist, and when she read about “milk brain” causing women to lose ten IQ points, she felt a logy veil of space-out descend on her. This even though milk brain was a product of nursing (“milk”) and not part of the actual pregnancy. For whatever reason, imagined or biological, Carrie not only felt out of it and forgetful, she had a placid affect: she didn’t really care. She laughed into the empty seat and touched her swelling belly. She liked feeling slow and heavy, embodied. A world unto herself, and barely anything else mattered.
Carrie jumped. Meadow had bent over her and kissed her cheek.
“Hey!” Carrie said. Meadow smelled of mints and cigarettes. Carrie watched her sit on the bench on the other side of the thick-hewn butcher-block table and take off her hat and sunglasses.
Meadow’s black hair was long and sleekly straight. At thirty-five she was already getting some gray strands along her face, which Carrie felt proud to think looked quite fetching. Carrie always gave herself a pat on the back when she found a sign of aging in a woman genuinely attractive, as in, She has wrinkles around her eyes when she smiles, but they look pretty cool. They really actually do, at least on her. But then it usually turned inward and backward to Carrie, as in, But I hate the first tiny hints of a weakening jawline, no one looks good with it, and I catch it in photos now, my wavy jaw especially on the left, just like my mother, and there is nothing to be done, really.