What I am really trying to illustrate is that a Mistress will get the quality of slave she insists on. So thorough training, setting out in exacting detail what is expected of him is what is needed to produce the perfect male slave. This should be backed up with severe and instant punishment every time the slave gets things wrong or shows the slightest lack of effort or any disobedience.
A few weeks of exacting training along these lines will work wonders with any slave.
Speech Training
The slave should be taught that only certain words and phrases are acceptable when he speaks to his Mistress. The slave should never refer to himself as 'I'. 'Your slave' or 'it' is more fitting. The slave should always use the formal mode of address 'Mistress' at least once in every phrase it utters.
The slave should always seek permission to speak before addressing his Mistress. After punishment is an ideal situation for a slave to demonstrate his submission.
• 'Please Mistress your slave/it begs permission to speak' is appropriate.
• 'Please Mistress your slave thanks you for punishing it for its failures. It begs permission to kiss your feet Mistress'.
• Or 'Please Mistress, it humbly apologises for its inadequacy'.
If I ever wish a conversation with the slave I will initiate one but it will always occur with him in a position of subjugation. I may even ask his opinion on some matter but I never place the slave in a position where he might get even the slightest idea that he being treated as an equal so he is never allowed even to make eye contact except in public.
In his response to questions the slave should be trained always to begin his replies with the phrase 'Please Mistress, your slave thinks........' or 'Please Mistress it thinks .........’ It is difficult subsequently for a slave to inject a note of insolence or disrespect in his reply.
If the slave has been permitted to ask a question or to attend to its needs he should similarly be trained to thank the Mistress for her decision.
Phrases such as; 'Thank you Mistress', 'Please Mistress your slave thanks you for your decision' and 'Please Mistress it thanks you for your decision' are appropriate whatever the decision of the Mistress and maintain the correct attitude of servility.
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POSTURE & POSITIONS
Generally a Mistress establishes several positions for her slave to adopt and they are useful for effectively managing her slave. As in all aspects of training, the slave positions are used to enable the slave to better serve, obey and please his Mistress. Few things define the slave more than slave posture and positions.
Slave positions are often used to:
• Allow him to show his submission and devotion
• Force him to concentrate on his position and body
• Give him a feeling a helplessness and remind him of his status as a slave
• Assist in him training by establishing a controlled behaviour
• Punish him or assume a position for punishment
• Examine his slave’s body, often as in inspection
• Easily have sexual access to his body
• View his body for pleasure
• Help a slave learn patience
• Make him available for public display or to show off to others
The usefulness of slave positions in the managing of the slave’s actions and making life easier and simpler for the Mistress is often overlooked. With one word or hand gesture a Mistress places a slave in a position that is useful and or pleasing to her and reduces the amount of instructions that are needed to direct his actions.
In addition, the use of positions will assist a Mistress in making behavioural modification. Positions create in his mind a feeling of helplessness to control the position and movement of his body. His behaviour is controlled by his Mistress and this reinforces training. He can only change positions when his
Mistress gives him an additional command to do so. It also conditions him to move and act at his Mistress’s command.
Inspection positions are used to inspect or examine the slave’s body. This includes not only his skin, but his mouth, ears, cock, balls and anal area.
Inspection positions are also used to insure proper hygiene, examine bruises from punishment, insure he is following shaving instructions, and reinforce in his mind that no part of his being is private from his Mistress.
Instruction positions are positions that are used for training a slave. In other words, when the Mistress places a slave in an instruction position, he knows to focus on her commands and or instructions intently. I use the verbal command 'LEARN' and when a slave hears this command he knows to assume the 'Kneel' position and direct his entire attention to what I am saying because my intent is to instruct him.
There are also several positions that are painful to hold for a long period of time and some Mistresses use them for punishment or to train a slave to focus on following orders.
The slave’s body is for his Mistress's pleasure. Sexual positions are taught to the slave so he can better serve her sexually and in a way she wishes.
A slave is not always in use by his Mistress. During the times he is not used he may be assigned a place and position to assume until needed again. With proper training, the slave learns to be patient while awaiting his Mistress's next command.
Positions can be used simply for art or beauty. If a Mistress enjoys viewing a slave in a particular position, he is pleasing her by just assuming that position for her viewing pleasure.
Some positions are used to display a slave in public and to show how well he is trained. These are used, more often, if the Mistress is a member of a structured Femme Domme group.
When a slave is ordered to assume a position, he should do it quickly and gracefully and without questioning the reason.
The Mistress should appraise the position frequently and inform the slave of any displeasure. He will then apologise for disrespect. 10 strokes of the cane should suffice before he is again ordered to adopt the position. This way the slave soon learns that his Mistress knows what she wants and means what she says.
How many positions the Mistress wishes her slave to adopt will obviously vary according to personal whim but I will include a few basic positions I would expect any slave to know.
KNEEL - on knees - feet together - knees very wide - back straight shoulders back - chest forward - belly in - arms folded tightly behind back head bowed - eyes down. This is the slave's standard position to receive instruction or speak to the Mistress.
Voice Command – 'Kneel'
Hand Command – open hand moved down with fingers together
STAND - stand - legs very wide apart - head bowed - eyes lowered - arms folded tightly behind back -chest out - belly in. This is the normal standing position and prelude to slave bow.
Voice Command - 'Stand'
Hand Command - Open hand moved up
SIT - Indian style on the floor - knees bent - soles of feet together - palms on knees - back straight - head up - eyes slightly down. This command can be used if slave permitted to watch TV say. Could possibly be allowed to rest back against an object
Voice command - 'Sit'
DOWN - lay on stomach - forehead to floor - arms above head - legs spread.