Some Mistresses will allow their slaves to speak without permission in public whilst others will insist on the requirement only to respond when asked a question. It is of course entirely at the whim of the Mistress.
When visiting other people's houses the slave must understand that he is expected to be helpful and polite at all times. He must attend to all of his Mistress' needs in a subtle way giving no hint of his status in life whilst making his servility clear to his Mistress (a fine balance rarely achieved by a slave in my experience). Naturally if the others present are aware of his status then no such 'niceties' need apply.
If the Mistress and slave eat out together at a restaurant it is of course quite normal for the Mistress to decide what the slave will eat. Clearly the slave does not have the right to choose. She may choose wine for herself and water for the slave. It is entirely up to the Mistress.
23
HUMILIATION
Humiliation along with punishment is a natural and regular feature of a slave's life. But I am not talking about what turns the slave on here. Rather about finding something he really hates and is being forced to do. It is not humiliating for a slave who likes cross dressing to be ordered to wear silk panties and a bra. The act of being humiliated helps the submissive male to feel inferior to the Female and is only effective if the slave hates what he is ordered to do. Therefore what is humiliating for one slave may not be for another.
Examples of humiliation include:
• Verbal abuse
• Objectification
• Use as furniture
• Trampling
• Face slapping
• Face sitting
• Enemas
• Strap-on
• Water sports
• Cuckolding
In public
• Cross dressing (sissification)
• Verbal abuse
A slave must expect any amount of verbal abuse from his Mistress. She is entitled to speak to him in any way she wishes, to criticise his performance and demean him. She may refer to his pathetic standard of work, his degree of servility, his caged sexual organ of which she has no use. She may call him stupid, worthless, pathetic and require him to admit to his inferior status.
'It is a stupid pathetic slave, Mistress' perhaps repeated one hundred times.
There can be no limit to the verbal abuse a slave must endure.
Objectification
Objectification is a great way to dominate a slave when the Mistress is not in the mood or does not have the energy to engage actively with the slave.
Often a Mistress feeling like this will relax the Mistress/slave differential. I hope by now that the reader will realise that this is a mistake. Instead she can order him to be her coffee table, footstool or clothes rack whilst she relaxes and reads or watches television. In doing this the Mistress is dominating her slave's psyche without too much effort on her part.
How long a slave can stand this use will vary from slave to slave and the position/posture required. The Mistress should be aware of the build up of lactic acid in the slave's muscles leading to cramps and avoid getting too carried away in her book or programme.
Use as furniture
This will be covered in a later session as it is a favourite of mine. It is both practical, can be very humiliating for the slave and requires very little effort on the part of the Mistress.
Trampling
A slave can be used as a doormat or bath mat. He is literally under his Mistress' feet and the position is historically significant as that of victor and vanquished.
However the Mistress must be cautious about trampling. She needs to know the male anatomy and skeletal structure to understand where she can and cannot apply her full weight. The bones of the face are easily crushed, the rib cage is similarly weak and the area of his stomach and crotch contain vital organs which could be damaged by application of full weight. However these parts of the slave's body can be stood on with various degrees of pressure provided the Mistress keeps one foot firmly on the floor. The Mistress can experiment with differing degrees of pressure from her shoes or boots to gauge the slave's reaction and pain threshold.
Face slapping
A slap or two across the face delivered with a curt and derogatory comment is a suitable and humiliating way to correct a slave who has failed in some way to please his Mistress. It can do no harm unless delivered so violently as to jerk the slave's head and jar his neck. This is in no way an alternative to punishment for the offence but more of an instant assessment of the slave's performance and reprimand. It is a good idea for the punishment to come later as the slave will then have something to think about. His reaction to a face slap and reprimand must be to kneel if he is not already on his knees, bow his head and reply with a mandatory form of apology or simply 'yes Mistress'.
Face sitting
Sitting or straddling a slave's face is an excellent example of humiliation.
The Mistress is on top where she belongs and the male is helpless with no choice but to pleasure her for as long as she wishes. The Mistress should take care to afford the slave the proper amount of air he needs to breath. A well trained slave will lick without command when his Mistress straddles his face.
The Mistress should maintain proper hygiene for the wellbeing of her slave particularly if she requires the whole area of her crotch to be licked.
Enemas
Enemas involve both humiliation and punishment. A suitable position is that for anal penetration or the slave can be suitably bound with the orifice conveniently presented. A thin plastic tube and a funnel is all that is required. Once again this is one of those practices where the slave is humiliated and subjected to extended discomfort with little effort on the part of the Mistress. To hold an enema for a long time is exceedingly uncomfortable. There is no let up in the discomfort and it is an excellent punishment and humiliation technique which has no risks attached to it whatsoever. I have had my slave hold an enema for an hour as punishment for not setting out my clothes correctly in the morning. He got this wrong only once!
Strap-on
Use of strap-on phalluses has been covered in an earlier section so will simply be mentioned as an extremely humiliating experience for the slave.
Water sports
Often referred to as Golden Showers, this practice seems to appeal to many slaves as the ultimate in degradation. It may be so but if the slave gets pleasure from this activity it has no place in a true Mistress/ slave relationship. Some couples do engage in golden showers but for me it is far too messy even though I know my slave would hate it.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding can be one of the most powerful ways of humiliating a slave, especially a slave husband.
The husband who is being cuckolded must bear the physical and emotional pain of being constantly sexually frustrated and must also bear the shame and humiliation of his wife taking other lovers.
Obviously the married Mistress of a non consensual slave husband can behave in any way she likes. This is an essential part of the slave's agreement to submit to non consensual slavery but few Wife/Mistresses will wish to engage in this activity. I know of only a very few married Mistresses who have gone this far. Indeed I would countenance against it. I would suggest that this activity would, more than any other, destroy the bond between a married Mistress and her slave in contrast with the imposition of non consensual slavery which strengthens it.