SHARING the LIFESTYLE
Whilst it is exceedingly satisfying for a naturally dominant woman to own and be served by a male slave and love the lifestyle for real it can be equally rewarding if she can share her interests and experiences with others of a similar mind. My local group of dominant women is limited to Holland and therefore it is very easy to get together with friends. It is a closed group in the sense that there are no public activities. We hold regular meetings in each others houses and in that respect our activities are behind closed doors.
Additionally we organise training sessions from time to time usually with a particular theme in mind.
We are a very small group and have formulated a set of rules for the behaviour of our slaves. For example they are all taught to kneel and move in the same way. They are all taught to serve in the same way. Thus at a meeting if a Mistress is served by a slave other than her own she will get the same standard of service. The only taboo is sex with another Mistress's slave.
Not a group as such but the OWK, Other World Kingdom in the Czech Republic is an actual place in the where women rule and men are their slaves. It is a closed society of Dominant females where Mistresses can go with their slaves to take advantage of the facilities. The Mistress can send her slave for any number of training courses and he will be kept in any conditions she decrees from mild to extremely severe whilst she has a holiday.
Throughout Europe and the USA there are many FD groups but it is not always easy to locate them. The internet is a good place to start looking and most European countries have a number of Female Supremacy groups though genuine lifestyle Female supremacists who live the life I describe seem quite rare.
The most efficient way of meeting others who share the lifestyle is to join groups and go to meetings or clubs and a few have been included in the contacts section at the end. There is such a wide variety of interests that finding a soul mate can be quite difficult but Female Domination is widespread and they are out there. Some persistence may be required.
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SLAVE RULES
1. The slave will conduct itself with absolute obeisance and humility at all times consistent with its inferior status.
2. The slave will beg permission to do anything it has not been ordered to do.
3. The slave will never stand in the presence of its Mistress unless permission has been given.
4. The slave will have its nose to the floor in the Mistress' presence unless permitted otherwise.
5. The slave will crawl with its nose to the floor at all times unless otherwise permitted.
6. In the Mistress' presence the slave will assume the submission position without instruction whilst awaiting orders.
7. The slave will beg permission to speak but only if it considers this absolutely necessary.
8. The slave will acknowledge every command by assuming the position it has been taught, and, if required, by verbal acknowledgement.
9. After completing assigned tasks the slave will report to its Mistress immediately on completion.
10. The slave will keep its eyes lowered submissively at all times.
11. The slave will never be late in performing a service which it must carry out at a specific time.
12. The slave will carry and present all objects to its Mistress, held between its teeth unless permission has been given to use its hands.
13. The slave will never wear any item of clothing unless permitted by The Mistress.
14. The slave must learn to anticipate the requirements of its Mistress, paying constant attention to her needs.
15. It its servitude the slave will think only of bringing maximum pleasure to its Mistress in everything it does.
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FINAL THOUGHTS
Any Mistress/slave relationship will at some time run into trouble. This should be expected and is not necessarily or even usually a sign that the relationship will fail. But like anything worth having it has to be worked at, honed or fine tuned to work really well. The secret, as I have explained, is to remove as far as possible any misunderstandings or situations where either party is unsure of the behaviour of the other or unsure of what She/he should do in any set of circumstances.
There is only one way to have a slave. That is on his knees, naked and in chains. Sadly it is virtually impossible to achieve this situation 24/7/365 in our modern world. However by following the ideas I have set out in this book I can say that I enjoy the lifestyle where this is possible for well over 90% my time. What needs to be achieved is the maintenance of the Mistress/slave differential all of the time. It must not be relaxed.
For the dominant woman seeking the services of a slave there are thousands of so called submissive men who are attracted to the idea of being a slave.
Sadly most of these have no idea of what being a slave means let alone being capable of living the life of one.
I discount in this number those who are simply turned on by a women in black leather carrying a whip and those who visit professionals with a list of things that can be done to them.
Amongst those of a genuinely submissive nature are many who will submit to a woman in a long term relationship as 'consensual slaves'. From my perspective these are not slaves at all because they set the limits so they are ultimately in control. The Mistress can never be sure how the 'slave' will react in any given situation. This is hardly the way it should be!
In the fifteen years since I adopted this lifestyle for real I have come to realise that there are many submissive men who, with a little guidance and help, can be persuaded to give up all rights and submit to a Mistress without limits in what I have described as non consensual slavery. Once agreed the Mistress has a hold on the slave and he is forced to obey or face the consequences of something even more unpleasant than his enforced servitude.
There are fifteen couples in our group and all of the slaves except two are non-consensual. The youngest is 40 and, as was the case with my slave when it first submitted, it was a condition that he accepted this status right from the start. Others had their status changed when their Mistresses realised the advantages. Most are in the age range 45 to 60 which is a sufficiently mature age for a slave to accept the change. But there is one who is now over 70.
Married for 40 years to a Circuit Judge his continued servitude is testimony to the effectiveness of the policy. Around the world I am in contact with Mistresses from Sweden to Italy and the USA who have benefited from the principles I propound.
To move from the situation of 'play' to real lifetime servitude and slavery the Mistress must be prepared to cross a threshold. I recognise that this threshold might be too high for some but I can guarantee, from my own and other's experience, that if the threshold is crossed the Mistress will never wish to go back.
Whatever the Mistress announces to her slave concerning what will happen if he ever disobeys or back tracks is of course entirely up to her but it obviously needs to be something that the slave would not like and something that would cause him great embarrassment and humiliation. It should always be announced after the slave has submitted, (in writing) to permanent nonconsensual status; never before. There can be no going back. This needs to be explained to the prospective slave beforehand.
There will be many for whom the practices outlined here are too severe. I have often been approached by women saying they could never treat their slave like this let alone their husband; they love them too much. And I am left wondering whether they wish to have a slave at all. My message must be that there are no half measures; it is all or nothing if you want a real slave.