Hesitant, because I knew it was going to sound crazy, I talked to De that night about my thoughts of attending graduate school at Michigan State University. She laughed at first because she thought I was joking. Once she realized I was serious, the discussion heated up. De was trying to convince me that we had everything we dreamed of having as teenagers, a house, family, secure jobs, and a community of friends who love and support us. I explained to her as best I could that I was positive that this was what the Lord was calling me to do. To which she replied, “Well why don’t you go up there and get settled and the kids and I will come up when you get everything in order?”
“No De!”, I was adamant. “There is no way that I can do this without you and the kids. Ya’ll are my life and I need you by my side if I am going to make this work.” Reluctantly, De agreed to leave everything we had worked for behind in order to pursue a new opportunity in Michigan, the place where it all began.
The next morning I went online and downloaded an application from the College of Education’s master’s degree in K-12 Educational Administration with an emphasis in leadership. I waited for months, checking my mail every day. Finally, I received a large green and white package with a Michigan State University insignia. My heart began to race just as it did with the G.E.D. letter and the Oakwood College letter. I opened it. It read:
Dear Mr. Thomas,
Your application for admission to the Master’s degree program in K-12 Educational Administration has been reviewed. I am pleased to inform you that you have been recommended for admission…
Epilogue
I finished my Master’s degree two years later, and as I write this, I am a semester away from completing my PhD coursework at Michigan State University. Imagine that, “Dr. Eric Thomas.” Has a ring to it doesn’t it? We all face challenges in this world, and life is certainly not always easy. But as the expression goes, “It’s not about the hand you’re dealt, but how you play your cards.” Looking back, there is no way I could’ve imagined my life being so fulfilling. I am still happily married to De, my kids are growing up fast, and I love what I do for a living.
If I could have you take just one thing from this book, it would be that there is no magical formula for success. It’s about having a dream and working towards it no matter what negative circumstances occur along the way. In basketball there is a saying that says, “The only way to get out of a shooting slump is to keep shooting.” The same can be said for our lives. The only way to get out of mediocrity is to keep shooting for excellence.
Always remember that success is not a destination, it’s a journey. To this day I still hear more “No’s” than “Yes’s.” The difference between me then and now, is the fact that the “No’s” don’t frustrate me anymore. Now, the “No’s” actually serve as motivation for the next endeavor.
We all have the ability to produce greatness in our lives. Not one single person on this earth is exactly like you. This means, not one person on this earth can do, exactly what it is that you were born to do. What were you born to do? That is a question only you can answer.
E.T.
A Message From The Author
For almost two decades Eric Thomas’ ministry has been a catalyst for developing personal pride and responsibility through positive change in the lives of millions. Through administration, aggressive education, and training programs Eric Thomas empowers people with skills needed to realize and sustain their piece of the “American Dream.” Without positive and consistent intervention, the cyclical nightmare of poverty, hopelessness, and despair will be the only realized “American Dream” for people and their children.
It has been found through sociological research that there is a profound link between an individual’s destructive behavior and the lack of resources available to them. Without exposure to opportunities, resources to educate, and a strategic plan to use and implement them, the disparity that exists in our society will continue to threaten the growth of our nation.
This concept can be used in various aspects of individual lives. It takes a leadership mentality to change a life perspective and you must be the change you want to see.
To say I’m excited about collaborating with Eric Thomas is an understatement. I have known Pastor Thomas for many years and to see his life and career elevated to where it is today is no surprise. After spending any amount of time with this Stella person, whether in conversation or seeing him in action, it becomes apparently clear that God has called him to the stage of public speaking for such a time as this.
I believe this book will add a new chapter to Eric’s journey. I also believe it is the first of many more to come. It would be wise for all of us to keep our eyes and ears open for whatever’s coming next. This man has stepped into an arena that’s been tailor made for him. I believe many lives will be blessed in addition to those who have already benefitted from Eric’s work.
Godspeed brother Eric,
Cry loud and spare not!
Daryl S. Anderson Sr.
Founder / CEO
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