What if he’s uncircumcised? Gently pull back his foreskin, and then unroll the condom to the base of his penis.
What if you want to share a sex toy? Germs can cling to porous toy surfaces, such as latex—so don’t share! But if you do, put new condoms on your toys before each use.
What if you give a handjob without a condom? You’re safe, as long as you don’t have any fresh cuts, open sores or cracks from chapping on your hands.
What if I go down without him wearing a condom? You can catch a STD—even from his pre-come. Be sure he tests clean before taking this risk.
How to Roll-Out a Condom
Put it on him before there is any contact with your mouth, vagina or butt.
Hold it by the tip to squeeze out the air.
No reservoir tip? Leave about ½ inch of space at the tip for his come.
Unroll it over his erect penis, all the way to the base.
After he comes, and before he gets soft, hold the rim of the condom at the base to keep it from slipping off till he is away from you. Then gently remove the condom and flush it, or wrap it in a napkin and toss it in the garbage.
Use a new condom to have sex again.
When lips meet latex. Pick up a plain, non-lubed condom. Before unrolling it, add a couple of drops of water-based lube inside the tip to create pleasurable friction for him.Then drizzle your favorite flavored lube on the outside for the best taste for you. Or try a flavored condom.
Enjoying Safer Anal Play
Latex. For the safest finger play, slip into a pair of latex gloves—or try finger cots—!atex finger sleeves. They protect against the spread of germs and can create slipperier, sexier sensations. Always use lube.
Dental dams. Create a protective layer between you and your guy’s erogenous zone for the safest tongue play. Use plastic wrap from your kitchen, or dental dams—which are rectangular pieces of latex you can buy at fine sex boutiques and online. Hold dental dams flat against the area you’d like to lick and caress and you’re ready to go.
See Chapter 9 for more safety tips on backdoor play.
Be Clean. Be Safe. Be Happy.
Be sure to include these easy sexplay tips to keep you healthy:
Wash up. Don’t introduce germs from the outside world onto and into your most sensitive private parts. Before anyone touches anything, wash hands with soap and warm water. If he’s uncircumcised, encourage him to wash under his foreskin—every day.
Clean your toys. Before and after each use, wash your toys with water and antibacterial soap or an adult toy cleanser. This will help prevent bacterial and yeast infections. You can sterilize silicone and glass dildos in boiling water for five minutes, or wash them on the top rack in your dishwasher. Dry your washed toys completely before storing them, or for the safest results, let them air-dry.
Examine your toys. Check your toys carefully for sharp edges that can scrape, or splits that can hide bacteria. If you improvise your toys, double check that they’re sturdy and won’t break off inside either of you.
Clean your room. Toss all towels you use for after-sex wash-up right into the laundry, or simply use tissues. Wash all bedsheets after you’ve messed them up, too.
AfterPlay
Congratulations! You’re on the verge of graduating from Penis School. Just one more little detail before you can receive your Penis PhD…
Ravish your guy’s penis.
Select an evening this week to spring your sexy surprise. Rivet his attention back on you. Revel in his rising passion. Rejoice till the very last drop.
After all, you deserve all the romance, affection and pleasure you’ll get in return!
P.S. Let me hear from you! Share your tickled pickle tales with me. And if I use your story or technique in my next book, I’ll send you an autographed copy, along with a very special toy!
Write to me at ticklekitty.com
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Tickle Kitty. 3701 Sacramento Street # 107. San Francisco. CA 94118 USA
Special Thanks
To all my friends and peers who helped—you’re the BEST:
Demetra Stevens—my straight-up bad-ass slickster, I knew I could count on you. Mark Supachana—we’re gonna hit that million book mark yet! Bo Pezulllo—my loyal supporter, I adore you, xoxo BoBo. Shelly Campbell & Michael Robles-my horny friends who contributed a “load.” Jady Smith—a beauty-ful star with shining input—thanks for a great job on my hair and makeup for the cover! Darlene Vidmar-a true home party expert. Lisa Mazurek—great tips and tricks inside! Elizabeth Turecki—killer stuff, girl! Dr. Bruce Bakkar—I’m spreading your message! Vajra Haha—tkk!ed to have your Tantric touch! Dave Guingona—no cold hands, BABY! Rick Sicurella—always there for me, you’re the best. Catherine Duperret. AdriaAvilia and Anthony Brown—my faithful posse…it’s vacation time! Adam Carolla—your penis quote ROCKS! Sue Johanson—you truly inspire me, thanks for the great quote and your continued belief in me. Kristin Lippel & “J”—!ove you always. Randy Gulliver—thanks for all you do. The “Bob & Tom” Family—my sincerest thanks for believing in me and helping me grow.
To my family-without you, I wouldn’t be where I am today:
Jason, Justin, Joshua & Jazmin—you’re the BEST. Thanks for your unconditional love! Mom—thanks for everything you do for me. I love you.
And my deepest thanks to the Tickle Kitty All-Stars:
Richard G. Martinez—You come through like a champ every time. You’re an absolute genius with your creative direction and dazzling designs. No one could ever top your work.
Rich Lippman—your editorial work and research ability were outstanding, especially since the only penis you’ve ever touched is your own!
Steve Lee—you’re the BEST illustrator! From female masturbation techniques to sex toys to dicks ’n licks… you always come through with amazing speed and outstanding representations.